Hello, I have been in a committed homosexual relationship with my partner for going on 4 years now. I love him to death BUT while having sex, it is always the same positions (which feel great but I want something new). This is coupled with the fact that he will not let me top- ever- despite me making it very clear that I would like to on occasion. He claims that he is too sensitive to do that and won't even try. When I try to get him to let me try, he becomes very upset which of course ruins the intimacy for both of us. I just feel like I am the only one trying to keep our sex life going. Is there anyway that I could approach this differently to maybe get some different responses from him?