basically I think to a certain exstent I already know the answer tothis question. which is; which way would you rather have it. you having sex with someone or them doing you. it's an interesting question. especially when it comes to sexual fantasies. mainly because it says a lot about the way you see yourself in a sexual role. literally. all i can speak from is my experience though. so here I go. i would rather be did. lol. yeah I know I break with the normal mainly because I had sex at least once and i almost fell asleep but not because i wasn't into it. mainly because I rather well how to put this. ahhh. I would rather have a lonely needy feeling to be fucked than a dominenet feeling of I wil dominate you. ow that does break with half my fantasies because in those i am a warrior but the other half it fits in well.