Basic Truths

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  1. oldkid

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    I know these things to be "truisms". Whatever you believe to be true at the fundamental level.
     
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    Being in love, falling in love.... these things have little to do with being loved.
     
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    Be willing to laugh in bed.

    It doesn't have to be perfect every time.

    Talk about everything.
     
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    Sounds like this is good advise. What is the "basic truism"?
     
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    All three of them are basic truisms for sex and relationships as I see it.
     
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    Good to see you're always right.
     
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    LOL, my average for being right wouldn't get me into the major leagues, but if I'm ever right in these forums it's probably because it gives me a chance to think before I speak.

    Here's another, if you'd like:

    Avoid the word "normal."
     
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    Nothing is unique
     
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    ^We're all unique individuals - just like everyone else.^ :p

    When someone says, "We need to talk" you are in trouble.
     
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    If there's only one man at a cocktail party, and a second man walks in, there's going to be a cock fight.
     
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    Every group of friends has That One Friend. The one you all complain about and kind of wonder why you keep them around...
    If you can't label who that is then it's 95% likely that YOU are that friend.
     
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    when we say we wont come in your mouth..................... we will :D
     
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    Never loan a friend money. Give it to them without expectation of repayment. Anything else will likely lead to upset and damage to your friendship.
     
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    If you get in the middle of a relational spat between a man and woman your body and soul will be broken. He'll break your body; she'll break your soul.
     
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    If you live in the country, you don't need to go inside to have a pee!
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    If you live in the country, you don't need to go inside to have a pee!
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