Bad situations..

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  1. Pride

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    Have you ever got yourself in a bad situations with multiple girls/guys.


    I'm asking because i have 3 girls....kinda but 2 in particular are getting to me. I mean i kinda like them both a lil bit and ive fooled around with them both a lil in the last couple days. And they both like me. And im not quite sure what to do about it.

    The BIGGEST problem is the girls are cousins. So that means they talk. And right now they are mad at not me but each other over this. And both well have feelings. But the problem is i like them both and id love to go further with one of them but i dont know who. Like i feel i may not know them well enough so i want to get to know each of them better. But i dont want to complicate things more and have them get even more of an attachment or hell even me get more attached. Either way i want to be bale to be friends with both. But also i dont want them to think im just playing them. I mean im not that type. Because i dont like people being mad at me or hurt ppl.

    I have talked to both about this and they seem to have pretty much said "lets play tug o war" But im just not sure how to handle this. I'm honestly afraid to make the wrong decision. They each have their quality's that i love and actually one even more so that the other.


    And this doesn't even include the 3rd girl :ugh



    I like being in control of my life but im just so unsure.
     
  2. zoso

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    it's all on you.
    only you can make that kind of choice.
    which one can you see youself married with?
    which one can you see being responsible, having kids, taking care of the kids, and not cheating on you with someone else(being faithful)??

    if you don't know.. then let rock paper siccors begin!!
     
  3. cook74

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    Damn Pride!! I wish I had your problems!!

    OK, How about.. You post their pictures and then do a poll to let the members of :sf decide :brow
     
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    Great idea Cook....:phat
     
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    Easy zoso, Pride is only 19, I don't think he has to date girls with the intention of marriage, just yet! :eek

    Pride, the way the two women want to play "tug o' war" with you, well, it makes them sound like foolish girls. I'd can them both and find someone more mature.
     
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    Cowboy Lover said
    Hold up a minute CL, He's gotta fuck them before he dumps them.

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  7. Nettle

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    That would just open a whole other can of worms...and anyway, he said he wasn't a player. :)

    Is it possible to tell them straight, I like you both, I'd like to get to know you better?
     
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    A problem I would kill for, but then I'm not 19 either! :lol:lol
     
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    Lets hear about the third girl.
     
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    He said he didn't want them to think he's playing them.

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    Geez . . .sounds like a mess. I'd have to say forget about them and move on. You don't want to be stuck in the middle of a jealousy battle. Especially if you're not even sure how much you like them-- just not worth it.
     
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    Forget them both: Move on....
     
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    go with the third chick.. if shes not related in any way and move on past the other 2
     
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    Yes Do.

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    You could convince them all that you're the next Hugh Hefner and they should ALL be your girlfriends :D
     
  16. Pride

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    Cant...they arnt 18 so i cannot do any of that or speak of it in detail.....yeah are a couple years younger....you do the math

    and btw you dont want these problems. trust me its worse than not having any problems at all. I used to think the same thing then all of a sudden.


    HAHAHA WHOA easy on that one...thems fightin words haha jp



    And yeah i get what some of you are saying about the "immaturity" thing but at the same time they really arnt like that but i think everyone has their moments. More of a sisterly...feud.


    And as far as dropping them both they are 2 fucking awesome girls. And ive been alone a LONG time. And im kind of craving a relationship. And i just dont want to wind up with nothing to so for the whole thing.



    And actually i havent given the 3rd girl a lot of attention though i find her to be very attractive and such. I think she is one of those girls that get very attached and clingy. And possibly a lil too immature. Which worries me.


    Thanks for all the responses btw
     
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    There is this town on the Arizona strip. You might have to become a Mormon.
     
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  19. Bluesy

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    *snort* :lol I doubt that Pride is that desperate for a solution to his problem.

    Pride, just flash 'em your cock and they'll agree to share you. The pros would outweigh any cons in their minds ;)