[Ask a Guy] Bad sex leads to infidelity

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  1. BritneyButt

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    How many of you guys have or knows someone who's cheated on their s/o because of bad sex or your s/o won't try something new in bed?
     
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    I cheated on an ex boyfriend because of this. However he was an asshole anyway.
     
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    I cheated on my last bf for the same reason. lol
     
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    I've known people who've done the cheating/polyamorous thing - never have myself. I don't think I'd be able to deal with the personal moral ramifications if I did cheat on a partner. (Also, admittedly, I have never known that the opportunity for such a thing has ever occurred for me.)
    As to "trying new things" - unless it's really out there then subtly easing into it rather than flat out asking has been my most successful strategy.
     
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    Bad sex is a great reason to step outside your relationship.
     
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    No, bad sex is a decent reason to leave your current relationship. There isn't a good reason to step outside.
     
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    My attempt at sarcasm failed :-/
     
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    No worries, ANALyzer - it's hard to convey via text only. (I have the same problem a lot.)
     
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    Well said
     
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    No sex lead where?
     
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    No sex lead trouble. No sex make bad medicine. No sex your problem? :p
     
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    Bad sex is never a reason to cheat on someone. Sex can be worked on and improved is both people are willing to try. If your going to cheat just call off the relationship.
     
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    Hookers....
     
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    Ex was open with sex but in the end I ended up going around due to being pretty pissed with relationship. Felt so good to leave her, yet quite bad for the kids even if teens at the time.
    I know soeone who cheated because his SO would never give BJ, do little things that matter, or let him make her orgasm orally.
     
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    You said ramifications.........heh heh uh..heh heh
     
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    I am living proof that it happens.
     
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    I have been tempted to cheat because in my current relationship the sex is getting very boring. I don't think I ever would cheat, but I will jerkoff to porn as a supplement, hehe
     
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    I could never actually cheat I do watch porn and cyber (I know some consider that cheating) my wife doesn't seem interested in sex anymore. But I still love her and would never leave her we are best friends.
     
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    I used to judge people pretty harshly for cheating. But now a days I moreso view it as a symptom of problems that were already present. Not to sound stupid, but if your partner is loving and you want to be with them, but you cheat because of a sexual need, and they never find out, can cheating actually help some relationships? Just playing a little devil's advocate and talking to myself.
     
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    Rare, but yes.:)
     
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