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  1. David4020

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    A right of reply is worth waiting for, and here's mine.. lol I was perm banned unfairly imo, but hey that's life. Back in May some of you clearly had no understanding of thing's, I was playing no 'card' as one or two of you said at the time. Mental issues are no card. It is just a hard and harsh reality for some people. Most people here didn't know my issues, and they didn't know how many times in life i've been to the brink and just managed to get myself back again. Yes there is always someone worse off that is a given really. Basically people shouldn't be jumping the gun assuming they know and understand situations. Anyway that's all. This site looks slow now, which is a shame. It was a decent site which I enjoyed for a while. I would come back now if I was allowed, but as I say that's just life sometimes.
    Hope everyone is well.

    Mark.
     
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    Welcome Back Mark..Time heals all xoxo
     
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    Welcome back. Hopefully things will go smoother this time around.
     
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    Well to be honest i'd obviously rather be here legitimately back on my old account under my real name. And just have fun an chill time on here, and post a pic or two occasionally. Which is what I did the vast majority of the time, i certainly won't be letting anything on site get to me anymore. I've already pm'ed Rob about it.
     
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    Well, thanks for the heads-up, Mark, that this is you (under an alias) and that you're back.
    Have a good time.
    Don't start drama and stir shit like you did before (resulting in your ban).
    I'll be over here doin' my thing.
    Hopefully others here are more forgiving than I am or have a shorter memory.
    Prove you can be an adult about things and maybe I'll change my opinion, but for now...
    <<clicks Ignore>>
     
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    You can come back as this new user. If you screw up again then the ban really will be permanent.
     
  7. David4020

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    I wasn't guilty of all those thing's some yes not all. And some people clearly have less understanding than others, but that's ok too. Hardly the crime of the century. But fair enough as you say ignore.
    As i've said I will ignore people if need be.
     
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    Ok, thanks. And fair enough.
     
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    Welcome back!
     
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    Welcome back!
     
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  11. David4020

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    Thanks.
     
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    Hello mark, welcome back. Hope things go smoother for you this time.
     
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    Thanks barblues. Thing's going too smoothly is boring. lol Thing's will definitely be smooth enough around here now though.
     
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    Hi Mark! I believe in second chances, so welcome back. Actually, I believe in third, fourth and maybe even millionth (IDK if that is a real word or not, but you know what I mean) chances.
     
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    I couldn't agree more.
     
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    I'm a bad , bad man who committed terrible crimes. Some of you really need to get a grip on reality, if you think i'm so bad take a good look around you online and in life.
    But back to ignore it is. Every ones having there little say whether through words or likes.
     
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    Hi, thanks Sandwich. Well for certain thing's personally I don't believe in chances. I'm apparently in that category for some but that's fine. But I know what you're saying about chances it is good to forgive most thing's.
     
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    I am really surprised at this post!!..Seems to me,Its been mentioned that you yourself were a bit of a villain here,If I remember correctly,I think it was to the fact about people warming up to you over your posts. I could be wrong!!!..Please remember the Power of forgiveness.Its not too bad to let go of a ego and try to understand that nobody is perfect!
     
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    Villain or Intentionally Malicious Troll? No.

    Idiot Juvenile Delinquent? Yes. I own that and don't keep it as any sort of secret.

    However, in spite of all my hijinks/"trolling"/teasing/&c I've never been banned. A couple of "hey, tone it down" messages from Rob, but never even a ban warning. And had I received a ban I wouldn't have proceeded to make more dummy accounts to carry on my misbehavior.

    And I don't see how you're surprised by this post from me. You've sniped at me multiple times in the past for being rude/mean/negative/whatever. I figured your perception of me would have made this predictable.
     
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    Most of this is about perception. What some people see as villainous or trolling. Actually doesn't always have to be the case.
    A mistake often made is to always take every thing on face value.
     
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