attractive neighbor

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by ben13, Jun 6, 2007.

  1. ben13

    ben13 New Member

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    so, i am a young adult and i have this very attractive milf neighbor who sometimes flirts with me. How do i test if she really wants to go with me or not without embarrassing myself?
     
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    By "go with you", you mean - 'have sex', right?

    I'd suggest that you let her make the step toward that. Since she is older, wiser, she can breach the subject with more tact than perhaps you would be able. Also, she may just be flirting for her own ego's sake, so be prepared for either outcome. :ugh

    btw - I see this is your first post. Welcome to :sf!
     
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    Yes welcome and What rose said, She is this sites gilf, after all
    so take her advice on this
     
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    I'm going to go against the grain and say "hit on her". I know I would be flattered if a younger neighbor hit on me! Even if she isn't interested, she'll be able to reminisce with her girl friends later on about that hot lil' cutie pie who wanted to get it on with her. Maybe when you run into her one day say, "Hey, I was just wondering if you'd like to come over and hang out sometime." *shrugs* You just never know...:brow
     
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    Can I be your neighbor bluesy :dgrin
     
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    I'll second Bluesy's advice, she's old enough to say no if she wants to say no, and probably do it with grace too. On the other hand, you never know where something like this could lead, and I know from my past that an experienced woman can give wonderful things to a young man.
     
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    Important detail that you all seem to be forgetting...is she single?

    If so: Go for it, older ladies know how to work it.

    If not: ...Go for it, just be really carefull about it. Make sure you plan an escape just in case. Remember, make sure the screen is popped out of the window before jumping out, removing it can waste precious seconds of your getaway
     
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    BSVT is right ... if she is single I'd go with Bluesy's advice but if not you better keep your distance.