[Ask a Girl] Asking a girl out?

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  1. fadetoblack72

    fadetoblack72 New Member

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    Is it bad to just introduce yourself to a girl and ask her out? Say at a convenience store or the likes. Not at a bar. I have a bit of anxiety and this method just seems like less of a game then beating around the bush!
     
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    If I see a pretty girl at a store I go talk to her, if she's interesting I invite her out for drinks or dinner. Usually you can tell after a few sentences whether or not she's interested or not.
     
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    What would you say to break the ice?
     
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    Probably best not to say something like "nice tits":lol
     
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    "Hi." is my usual opener, then it depends on what the circumstances are.

    She's got a cart full of chips, beer, and meat: "Having a bbq?"
    She's got something rare in her cart: "How's the ...?"
    She's got an article of clothing in her cart: "I bet you'd look pretty in that."
    She's got a kid in her cart: "So I guess you go all the way?"
    She's got a dog in her cart: "That's cute, what kind of dog is it?"

    4/5 of those are real, guess which one is bullshit :p
     
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    LOL. Why would she have a dog in her cart? I'd say the 4th one is BS but I bet someone has used it before!
     
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    I see women with small dogs in their carts all the time. :p