[Ask a Girl] Ask a guy and girl-Pussy lips

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  1. Old Hippie

    Old Hippie New Member

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    I got a question for all of you experienced lovers. So I go to give my wife head the other night and her pussy lips look like they do sometimes after we have gotten it on. They are puffy and look like someone has been sucking on them.
    They are stretched out and her button area is all puffy. I have been in town all day and she has been at work.
    After 40 years of marriage I know my wife's body real well. If she had been in the hot tub for a while I know that it will change her lips. She is fairly unresponsive and I get a quick blow job and that's that.
    The general vibe of the area is that there has been some serious stimulation to make it look that way. I do however know that there can be variations in the way a pussy looks from time to time. What can the girls tell me about this? And what do the guys know as to how a pussy can look on any given day?

    Thanks
     
  2. DarkJewel

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    I'll let ya know
    Maybe she is getting an infection...sometimes they can make you look swollen.Would explain being unresponsive too.
     
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    Maybe she recently masturbated and wasn't really in a sexy mood, but still felt gracious enough to satisfy your needs too.
     
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    SWG, we are on the same page !!! That is the first thing that came to my mind.
     
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    Yea she could be secretly rubbing one out ....
     
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    I agree with SWG :)
     
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    I agree with all of the above....
     
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    Good to see you drop in for a visit, Old Hippie. Y'all beat me to it. She could have been looking at porn too.:eek
    You aren't worried she'd had a recent visitor, are you?
     
  9. Old Hippie

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    Hi HardRocker,
    Yea it's been a while, Thanks for remembering me.
    Yea so we had a heart to heart talk. She says I'm being paranoid and I do work it out with the green eyed monster from time to time. Family sub conscious left over from my dad's girlfriend; also known as my mother's sister. It went on for about 30 years. When you're growing up and your dad is never home at night but it is never talked about, you have a hard time with discerning what is meant by " everything is fine".
    Poor me, boo hoo hoo. So from time to time I feel the need to check in with my wife if she starts getting chummy with the younger guy at work. She ends up feeling ripped off and says it's disappointing that I don't trust her. I end up feeling bad and she cries. All and all it went well. I believe her because she is consistent and loving. Ahh relationship, the ultimate test of patience and reliability.
    I tell her that I will always love her no matter what. If she did have an affair I would rather know. It the being made a fool of I am fearful of. It made my mother very sad in her later years. Shoot I would go out and even it up if she wanted to, but she says she is not interested in an affair anyway.
    So we've been down this road some before. I think if she was just more vocal with her " I love yous" and more affectionate it would help some with my insecurities. So for now we are back to "normal".
    So thanks for the opportunity to have a place to talk candidly. We really do have a good relationship, but I still work out a fear of abandonment from time to time. Old Hip