21 year old male Hmm, not really sure what my own question is...like a lot of people before me im sure i kinda just want to spit it out and hear what people have to say... Im engaged to a beautiful woman and very much in love. but ive always been what i consider bi-curious. I find women very much attractive, but i like cock. i had a friend when i was younger and we used to experiment ya know. Now with my fiance i love for her to finger me, and we both enjoy when she grinds me and pretends that shes fucking me. we tried a strapon but it was kinda a cheap one and didnt work too well. I guess the only question thats here really, is, how common is it for guys to be like me? I mean, when i see men i never think of them as atractive (and no this isnt denial or being afraid to admit it). hmm..how to explain it, well men dont turn me on as in i dont find men to be good looking face or body wise....but im often turned on by dick. when i watch porno sometimes the women get me going and sometimes the dicks do, depending on how i feel at the moment. I felt this way for years but always kinda kicked myself saying "you're not gay stop it!" ya know. finally i realized im not gay, i just enjoy sex in almost every way. i fantasize about giving blowjobs and being screwed by men semi-commonly. but i ramble on. anyone give me an idea of how common this is? i kinda want to know because if it seems to be more common than im imagining it might make it easier for me to approach someone for a three-some. My fiance and i have talked about it many times, neither of us would ever let the other participate with a memeber of the opposite sex, and i dont see that as a problem. we do both want to have three somes where a woman and i would play with her and vice versa though. but its kinda hard to accomplish something like that where i live. gay/bi is kinda kept on the REAL downlow here ya know, deep down south in a small town, im sure ya know what i mean. so, in summary. anyone who can say how common my feelings are, and/or maybe suggest some places or techniques to approach people would be appreciated, thanks.