Arousing things you can do with ben wa balls and string

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  1. KateM

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    [FONT=&quot]In 50 Shades, he inserts ben wa balls in to her, then spanks her and massages her butt so she feels massaged inside and out.[/FONT]
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    [FONT=&quot]What other interesting things can you do with ben wa balls to arouse the woman? Does anyone know any techniques? I’m not sure it can be done but I had the idea of getting the guy to insert them with his mouth. Don’t know if that is doable. I suppose you could insert the balls, then pull them out then insert them again to tease, but I’m not sure that would be very arousing. I mean, you could as well use a finger or penis for that.[/FONT]
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    [FONT=&quot]I also heard once of a guy being able to do arousing things with string. I don’t know the details. I assume he rubs the string against the vulva but I’m not sure a simple string would be all that arousing. anyone know how it's done?
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    [FONT=&quot]Anyone else got any tips and techniques they’d like to share, to give me ideas of what can be done?[/FONT]
     
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    I've heard of women inserting musical Ben Wa balls into their vagina, and then going to work. Every time they moved it caused the balls to vibrate and a good time was had all day. The only problem is that those who did this had to wear panty liners and change them often :D
     
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    [FONT=&quot]Thanks; that sounds like a good suggestion. I haven’t tried any balls myself yet but I did read some reviews where some women said they could hardly feel the balls once inserted. I guess the vibrating ones must make their presence felt far more strongly.[/FONT]
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    [FONT=&quot]I did read that one should not keep the balls in for more than 2 hours. All day seems excessive and could cause irritation, from what I read.[/FONT]
     
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    We have something similar but is shaped more like a bullet and is remote controlled. I could probably send you a link to what we have. Mitt would be a good source to ask as well.

    It is GREAT fun for both of us. My wife tells me the bullets weight ( with 6 watch batteries ) and the unexpected vibrations make the whole experience a turn on. One experience while on vacation with some naive friends turned into an exceptionally fun night for the two of us!!!!

    I hope you find what you're looking for and keep the rest of us posted on your progress. It will be fun to hear about it.
     
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    [FONT=&quot]I googled it. seems to be a mini vibe. Thanks for the info; that’s useful.[/FONT]
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    [FONT=&quot]I read with the ben wa balls, you have to consciously clamp around them to prevent them falling out. is it the same with this bullet?[/FONT]
     
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    She says yes, it does.
     
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    [FONT=&quot]Just wondering; what if a man inserted this bullet into a woman without her knowing its remote controlled and vibrates, took her out to a party or something and then made it vibrate for a few seconds? Would the woman’s INITIAL reaction be fear, amazement, amusement, or excitement? i'm thinking if she never had a vibe before, it could be fear.
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