Hello all Do you argue with your partner? How does it effect your relationship? I am in, what is now, my longest ever relationship although that is not very long for many of you who will have been married for decades. Still, in the several years we have been together we never, ever, argued, everything was perfect and happy, we were never cross or angry with one another. Recently however this has changed. About a month ago we had a big argument and didn't talk for a week. Also this week we have also argued and I spent all night crying but everything was smoothed out this morning. Do you think this kind of thing is just inevitable in any kind of longer relationship? I am a fighter and take no nonsense from anyone but I really, really hate arguing with my beloved and am one of those people who rarely gets upset but when I do I get very, very upset. I know it seems impossible for perfection to exist forever but at the same time it upsets me that these arguments have even happened.