[Ask a Girl] Are your orgasms easily identifiable.

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  1. privatepartner

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    Ladies does your partner know when you achieve an orgasm?
    My spouse has different types or so she says. Long drawn out ones that are like continuous but not intense, vaginal ones she says start deep inside and slowly come out to clitoris orgasms and those are the screaming don't touch it but fuck me hard now ones.
    The long little ones I am clueless.
    Other women in the past are thrashing around on the bed and moaning loud but you never quite knew they had their orgasm until they finally said ok ok I had my orgasm.

    Wouldn't it be just easier to let a guy know?
     
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    I'm easy to read.

    But sometimes I'm having sex and a guy asks me if I've had an orgasm when, to me, it'd be clear I was just on the building up stage.

    At moments like this, I always think he may never have seen a woman really climaxing, or not have had any experience with somebody whose body is one big nerve ending.
     
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    He usually knows but not always. I too have several different kinds of orgasms, some are extremely intense and couldn't not be noticed but others are not so intense and I'm not sure he'd know.
     
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    My wife creams on my cock when fucking and she cums. She pants and thrashes with clitoral ones.
     
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    FWB used to be vocal when fucking, and once she discovered the wow factor of slower sex, her wetness plus her vocalizing betrayed her.

    Only maybe 3 partners would become real tight when reaching orgasm.

    One who loved riding me got so wet inside I could not be oblivious to it.

    A one time partner used to gush. No way to not know.

    You will soon know when I meet the younger one in a wheel chair.
     
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    if he knows wat "im coming" means in this contxt then yes
     
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  7. Eater47

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    Easy to tell when my wife cums....
    She's a gusher....
    She's loud....
    She shakes and bucks and humps....
    And I have to peel her off the ceiling when she's done!
    Nothing subtle.

    :D
     
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    One big nerve ending, that says it all about you.
    When with my ex, her orgasm was only some moderate moaning.
    after that I discovered a lot. I thought those body rocking orgasms and cock orgasms were porn stuff.
    I thought gushing was porn made stuff too. Then I experienced it. Yeah some guys never saw those things.
     
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    It's pretty obvious when I have an orgasm. I am super loud, and I also usually say so when it's happening. I have been told by a guy once that it was like wrestling a wildcat...all teeth and claws. I don't think it's always quite that intense though; that man was particularly good at what he was doing. But I am always very vocal and animated about it. Sometimes I don't even realize what I was doing or saying until after when my throat hurts or something. It would be really hard to miss.
     
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    It's pretty easy to tell when I have one. Either from sex or being fingered. Moaning and Obviously the extreme wetness happens. Then when I'm cumming my pussy muscles start contracting very intensely. My hubs knows if he feels that he doesn't have to ask if I did.
     
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    It’s very obvious. My breathing becomes heavier, a lot of the time I’ll encourage him to keep doing exactly what he’s doing, and then once I reach...I tend to hold my breath for a few seconds before getting a little noisy :) My body goes from tense to very relaxed, and he can feel the contractions. There have been times that I’ve had to hold back my reaction (in semi-public play) and it’s sooo difficult! So, there’s no missing it in my case lol :p
     
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    Wish I could replace the word "he" for "Duffy"; just reread with that thought.....hmmmm !!
     
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    :p
     
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