Are you recently single? or is your partner away a lot?

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  1. Untamed

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    I was just wondering what people miss .. when their significant other isn't around.. or is no longer your significant other eg. sex.. being intimate... cuddling.. having someone to talk to..etc.??
     
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    Cuddling, laughing, holding hands, obviously sex but that's a little easier to manage in some ways.

    I miss having a friend out of it more than most of it. Someone to joke with and bounce ideas off of.

    Being single definitely has its advantages, but it takes work to keep the social and sexual side satisfied when you're single. For me, at least.
     
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    I know emo thread.. I have been known to remember the bad things about past relationships.. BUT for once I am going to remember the good.

    With the ex-husband - Religiously having a glass of wine when the kids were asleep.
    - Having someone to welcome home
    - Watching him play Streetfighter, man he was good at combos
    - Similar taste in music
    - Being able to go out as a family
    - Watching porn together
    - The way he touched and licked my nipples


    With the recent ex BF - Riding in the truck with him to work
    - Cuddles in bed watching a DVD
    - Playing Battlefield and Call of Duty with him
    - Drinking beers with his Dad
    - Intellectual conversations we had.
    - Reading together.
    - Doing our groceries
    - Having him inside me
    - Him calling me babe
    - I miss saying I love you to him :(
     
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    you know, sex is always what people come to. but i really miss going out, walking, picnics, volleyball, rock climbing. doing stuff you know? sure i miss the cuddling, kissing, hugging, fucking, showering together, eating, fooling around. its like a best friend that you can do more than you can with any other best friend. also, sometimes i miss talking. i know, sounds crazy right? what kind of guy misses talking? well i always have these crazy crackpot stories, and when my girl bounces it right back it just gets me all excited and smile. i miss holding my girl, she always says shes cold, but i squeeze her tight and she always feels warmer than i am. she always smells better than me. something that makes me want to get closer. i miss the pranks we pull on eachother that makes us laugh for days or the inside jokes we have that make other people go 'wtf? crazy people'. i miss never feeling alone. theres something about being with my girlfriend that makes me more confident then ever before.

    i know, that blurb was really incoherent and not very cohesive. i just really miss my girlfriend and when i talk about it, i tend to ramble :(
     
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    While it's rare we are apart, but when we do have to be in different places for a few days....someone to share whats important, someone to snuggle with as we fall asleep, someone to hold hands with.
     
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    Not sure I'll be adding anything to this thread that hasn't been said, and I'm not at all recently single, but here goes:

    physical closeness
    holding hands
    talking about all kinds of topics and such
    playing video games together
    going on long drives for the fuck of it
    going to the beach and looking for cool rocks and shells
    completing each others sentences or having the exact same thought at the same time
    kissing
    sex (duh :p )
    buying gifts and seeing her face light up
    simple gestures and words that mean so much
    ...
     
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    Her smile, her touch, her large soft eyes, the funny accent she has, the way she is always subconsciously groping for my cock while watching TV.
    God and she isn't even due to leave for another three more days but already miss her in advance.
     
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    Really miss cuddling up to him to fall asleep. Now I find it hard.
     
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    Honestly... i miss the hugs, the holding hands, the cuddling... the sex of course. But just the little things too.
     
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    I miss her laugh and the dimples under her eyes when she scrunches them up laughing. It was the cutest thing in the whole world! Made my heart sink every time.
     
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    The whole package, companionship, intimacy, cuddling, activities, sex, doung little things for each other, holding hands, etc.
     
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    When she's not around I miss cuddling for sure, though we don't have much sex. Talking about anything from important stuff to the most ridiculous things. You also notice the way the place goes quiet and that you miss the presence of someone nearby. It's comforting when she's around.
     
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    Ive been missing my boo lately. I miss the way he smells. The way he looks at me. The way we finish each others sentences or know what each other is thinking. The way I catch him looking at me from across the room. His smile. The way his skin feels. His kisses & the passionate way he bites me. That he knows what I like. I miss sucking his dick & having it inside me. I miss cuddling, the way he wraps my whole body up with his. I miss waking him up with a bj or him waking me up with his hard dick at my ass. I miss having him around. I miss his calls & texts. I miss the smile on his face when I walk in the room. I miss going to the beach with him at night. I miss the way he touches me. I miss the way my body reacts to his presence. I hope I dont have to miss him for much longer. :)
     
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    My hubby has been gone for close to 8 weeks. I miss him so much it hurts. He'll be back soon - but these longer times away will be happening a few more times over the next two years with his job. We've gone to visit him, but it isn't the same as having him home.

    I miss his company most - the small talk while going about our daily business (in the kitchen while I'm cooking is a big one - he always keeps me company, and now its so quiet). I miss the smell of him in our bed, and how he warms me up when I'm cold. I miss the excitement I feel when I know its almost time for him to come home from work - the kids even line up in the window waiting for him.

    All the little things are what I miss most - I could go on, but it makes me sad! lol
    Thank goodness it's only a few more days.
     
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    miss coming home to a beautiful woman after a long day
     
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    I miss feeling loved and having someone to talk to and be close with. He was my best friend and now I'm just sort of floating out here all alone. He wasn't my best friend because he was my boyfriend, he was my best friend because I thought we clicked so well. Apparently, I was the only one who felt that way...
     
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    he probably feels the same way but isnt too "proud" to put the rest behind him and be friends