So I first asked this question to a previous girlfriend, when she was creeped out by a bisexual friend we both had. Not that the girl was skeezing on her, but just that she neither identified as "straight" or "gay." So, here goes. Ladies feel free to answer too, of course, but I always ask this in convos when sexuality comes up, and women seem to be about 20 times more honest and open-minded about it. Damn New England Puritan culture... So, since most men on here probably identify as "straight," I will ask it from that point of view, but feel free to swap pronouns and identifiers to make it work for your gender/sexuality. If you were out and about, and happened to see another guy who seemed attractive to you, and you noticed yourself feeling turned on by him, would you admit it to yourself? Notice, it's not, would you suddenly call yourself "gay" or "bi" or "curious," not, would you change your entire sexual identity, not would you run up and rip his clothes off, not would you do anything except admit to yourself that you found that individual attractive and that he turned you on sexually. Most of my galfriends tend to say something to the effect of "well, yeah, of course I'd admit it, if she's hot, she's hot, I am who I am." My guyfriends give one of two responses. First the cop-out, scared-shitless response of "that would never happen to me, I'm straight." Or rarely the more honest, I've-been-drinking-enough-to-forget-that-I'm-supposed-to-be-100%-unshakably-straight response of, "no, I would not be able to admit it to myself if I noticed that happen." Obviously, there is some overlap between the groups; the first girl I asked (see intro story) was of the head-in-the-sand cop-out variety. What would YOU be willing to admit to yourself if that situation arose?