Are you always going to be who you are? I know sounds stupid but after reading post of the past couple years, I have thought about it. Posts where he treats me like crap, she dumped me, he is jealous, she is submissive, his family, her kids. People tell them to get rid of them, move on. They will never change. Will they never change? Are they always going to be that way? Many years ago love made me do some things that I would never do and I am not very proud of it. Nothing really bad, jealous type of things as the relationship was ending. I was not me. I hope this makes sense. Sometimes it is hard to put thoughts in written words.