Are you a dom?

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  1. Babiegurl

    Babiegurl New Member

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    I love being a dom! Though I switch from dom to sub every now and then. My husband doesnt like that I'm a littl bit more dominant then him at times. Is it a turn off for some guys, that have more of a dom side, for their lovers to be dom as well?
    Just something about it is a turn on to me. I have utter control and fredome to do what I want.
     
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    I think I prefer submission much more. However, it's nice to switch it up once in awhile. Lol:)
     
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    Am I a dom...yeah, c'mere and I'll make you an offer you can't refuse! ;)


    I actually like to be submissive moreso than domminant. Then, sometimes the mood catches me and she may as well have a spike collar that says "bitch" on it with a leash attached cause her ass is mine! :dgrin

    -Emt
     
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    I am a sub, although I can be very subtley dom. Like last night, I was going down on my man and he told me to come and fuck him. I just looked him in the eyes and carried on sucking his cock. I held his pelvis down with my shoulders and sucked until I was satisfied and then fucked his cock until we both came.
     
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    How does it feel to be dominant since I have been mainly a sub (as you call it) but at times there is pressure when the other half gets tired of it. I have read a lot of different stories about playing dominant and the foreplay involved but I still haven't worked out quite how to be dominant, lack of experience I guess.
     
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    In lovemaking I am the dom (always)
    and I love to put her in her place and smack her ass till
    she begs to be fucked.
    Frankly I have never completely understood why women enjoy
    being spanked till the virtually beg to be fucked, but they do and
    I love it.
    As for being submissive-never.:sf
     
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    I'm mostly submissive, but it is a lot of fun to really take charge from time to time :D The "Get over here you manslut and lick that pussy good!" kind of domination is not my style, however.
     
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    Thats not being dominate, And I sure wouldnt be submissive
    in followins the instructions you just gave.
    That would be pure pleasure.
     
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    Well you could dominate me like THAT any time you want!! :brow :p
     
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    Bluesy I think you just got 2 offers
    anyone else?????
     
  11. Bella

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    I'm submissive too, but you won't catch me turning down the opportunity to get on top & take control!! :brow
    ~Bella
     
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    I agree with those guys who love a dominant woman. Obviously I wouldn't like it if a girl could kick my ass (I happen to like petite women), but I love it when a girl takes charge and just has her way with me, lol. For real. A girl who jumps on me, pushes me down a little, and gets aggressive is totally sexy.
     
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    [BANANA]YEAH, BABY!!![/BANANA]

    That's OK, I don't think I can handle more than two at a time, really! :eek I am getting out the softcuffs, feathers, flogs, flavored lube, and blindfolds in just a sec here...Whenever, guys :brow
     
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    I am submissive 90% of the time; but every once in a while, i tackle him down, handcuff him to the bed and make him squirm
     
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    I'm 100% sub. I've tried the dom thing once or twice in the past and hated it. I have no problem with female doms or male subs at all, it's just not my thing. To me it just feels natural for the man to dominate the woman.
     
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    Like a strong MAN with a gentle hand!

    I love my man to be a dom, with the occasion that I just ferociously take over like a lioness.....BUT I'm finding it hard to get him in the sack at all lately, :cry so telling him I want him to be more dominant is kinda beyond what I'm able to accomplish to begin with.

    I did tell him last night though that I wanted him to dominate more instead of our normal which is more spiritual and goddess/god type spiritual thing....tantra and connecting through lovemaking which as many will know is very equality based.

    I guess I even take it the next step further in wanting to be lightly forced (for lack of better words)??? Is this totally mental or totally normal? I am a bit kinkier than most :dgrin But most of who is the question huh?
     
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    Sounds totally normal to me, but then I'm not really sure I'm normal.
     
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