A bedroom transvestite is usually a straight male who gets off on wearing women's bras, panties, lingerie along with full makeup and wig. After he has his orgasm, a bedroom TV then becomes all male again and off with the makeup and lingerie. This is a strong sexual fetish of mind that I need for intense arousal. Is this a deal breaker for most women or could you learn to like it and enjoy it with your husband. My wife has become my sexual ally in this department which I am very thankful for.