i read somewhere women say when they see a man very focused about something like working on his computer (at home) they get turned on. which to me reminds me of a cat attribute where they jump right on your lap exactly when you are doing something important. but it also got me thinkin, could it be possible that this turn on might stem from a lack of confidence? meaning if a woman sees someone focused she might think "why isn't he focused on me like that"? and deduce that sex (in her case) would "bring him" back to her.