are woman like cats?

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  1. the_traveler

    the_traveler New Member

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    i read somewhere women say when they see a man very focused about something like working on his computer (at home) they get turned on.

    which to me reminds me of a cat attribute where they jump right on your lap exactly when you are doing something important.

    but it also got me thinkin, could it be possible that this turn on might stem from a lack of confidence? meaning if a woman sees someone focused she might think "why isn't he focused on me like that"? and deduce that sex (in her case) would "bring him" back to her.
     
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    I'd say it's the opposite of "lack of confidence" - when my man is working so hard and concentrating on something, he just looks so sexy!

    do I interrupt him? no. do I jump him when he's finished? yes!
     
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    My wife has expressed similar feelings as johndeeregirl expressed. Bunnie says that when she sees me very involved in work (I work from home at times), or a home improvement project, or playing with/coaching our kids, it turns her on. In her view she sees me pouring my energy into things that improve our marriage and family life, ahead of what my own desires might be at the time (though I do enjoy doing these things), and it gets her horny and wanting me to do things to her. At times she will incite me to "attack" her because of this, by doing something "wicked".
     
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    Agreed. :tup
     
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    I tend to interrupt my boy when he's busy with something, and i think for me it kind of is a self confidence issue. I hate my body ect and this man is the only one that I've ever been comfortable with. I guess by 'jumping' on his lap when hes in the middle of his work, it makes me feel better that he gets detracted from something important just by me :)
    E x
     
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    Definately don't interrupt Mr Bunny if he is concentrating and working hard on me LOL :nuts
     
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    not a lack of confidence for me, just a lack of patience
     
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    Well if it is a turn on...
    ladies. I am very busy right now.
     
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    sweet home...
    get back to work lol
     
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    Ouch. Actually its quitting time for me. Time for a drink.
     
  11. gphine

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    I was going to use the smiley, but it's so cliche.... You actually made me laugh out loud!

    Very, very funny! Well played.
     
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    Glad to hear it but I was really hoping to get the reaction from the ladies.
     
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    well you got one, so why complain?
     
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    Maybe thats why my wife is horny, I'm a contractor so I'm always working on something....and when I'm not running the kids to hockey or coaching them, I'm changing something on the house she wants, working on one of the vehicles or motorcycle, fixing computers, and so on.....though I'd think fixing a computer would be boring.