Are there any couples.....

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  1. SexyScorp

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    ....out there who dont feel the need either to have sex with other people,
    engage in cyber sex, phone sex or any other type of sex which doesnt
    involve only their partner.....

    I am beginning to wonder?

    Please people....restore my faith?


    :)
     
  2. Nettle

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    My sister and her husband. :)
     
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    Me and my wife. Sure, I flirt on here sometimes, but I'm never serious. :)
     
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    Nettle and heel....how long have these relationships being
    going on?

    I am interested to see also how many long term couples manage
    to stay faithful to one.....:)
     
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    Not sure SexyScorp if this will restore your faith, but honest answer:)

    Though married for 15 years, I continue to enjoy flirting with women at work. It makes office life exciting always.
    I continue to exchange flirty emails with girls I previously dated many years ago.
    I have never done phone sex with anyone other than my wife.

    I fantasise about other women.

    I have never acted upon any fantacy.

    I don't ever expect that I will cheat upon my wife as at the end of the day she is my true woman, body and soul.

    Now of course some folks might say that I am already cheating by way of the flirting.

    Each to their own. This is just my view point.

    My wife tells me that I am a flirt. But she knows that at the end of the day, the only physical intimate sexual contact I have, remains with her.
     
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    I wouldnt say flirting is being a cheat at all....some people
    by their very nature are flirts (especially Libra men lol)....

    My question was more to do with acting out sex on the phone
    or computer or physically doing it :)

    Thanks for being so honest......xx
     
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    I am 47, my wife is 48 and we have been married for 26 years. She has never cheated on me and I would never cheat on her. So, as for your question, "feel the need", the answer is no. That said, we have done FFM 3-somes for about the last 7 years with 3 different women (all were married btw) because all three of us enjoy it (but don't need it). And, my wife and one of the women go on cruises and they will take a guy to their room and my wife's friend will have intercourse with him and both will have oral sex. I don't consider that cheating because I know she's gonna do it and because she enjoys it I encourage it.


    Hope this helps.
     
  8. Nettle

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    My sister has been married 26 years.
     
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    Thanks guys

    I wasnt just talking about cheating

    Moreso about having sex with other people...whether that be
    cheating or with your partner knowing.


    I am talking about monogamy :)
     
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    God SexyScorp, how did you guess that I am a Libra man??? Does my profile show it, of could you just tell?
     
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    I knew because your profile shows it doesnt it?

    How else would I have know.......:)

    Libra men would die without flirting hahaha
     
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    Same for e im libre and flirt hehehe ( although im extremly faithful to my partner , more so than anyone else here )




















































    Because i have no partner to cheat on in real life hehehehe
     
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    I seem to possess a flirting nature, though I am totally faithful to my husband (Hey Scorpy, does that Astrology stuff say anything about us Libra women? :ugh) -

    I will smile, when smiled at, and love to carry myself in such a way that will cause men to look - even though I am with my husband, and give no indication that i am interested in anyone but him.

    I suppose its a 'tease'... perhaps a 'game'... but there is no "winner" and "loser". I love being my husband's pride and joy (a' la Stevie Ray Vaughan :brow ), and would never go outside our own boundaries.
     
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    Rosie

    Libra and Taurus are ruled by the planet Venus....planet of love.....

    The women and men are very good at "love games"...flirting etc...

    Its a natural thing for you to do.....

    loved your reply btw......very genuine....:)
     
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    i flirt,
    my boyfriends a little, (used to be alot but it freaked me out coz i got trust problems)
    other then that, i dont usually fantaise about anyone but him.
     
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    I've always been somewhat of a flirt but only with people I know well and feel comfortable with. At first I can be a bit why and withdrawn. However, getting comfortable usually takes only a few hours or a few drinks...whichever comes first.

    I always try not to cross the line from flirting over to teasing/leading someone on. I have no intention of ever cheating on my SO, and I don't want to end up in a situation where I have to explain that to someone.
     
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    Im single , i get to flirt :p hehehehe


    But sure wouldnt mind having a partner , then i wouldnt even need to flirt at all. :)
     
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    Ditto here. We will have been married 23 years in July. I also fantasize, but have never acted upon lust or outside love. There is way too much to risk sacrificing, and I couldn't live with myself if I did. Besides, I can't keep secrets from my wife anyway.
     
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    I've been with my wife for just about 8 years, haven't cheated, haven't wanted to, don't plan to. What's with all the Libras? I'm one too.
     
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    I'm an Aries, my wife is a Virgo. I have no clue what that means.