are smoking hot girls/women only into guys with money?

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    It seems they are I mean I have lost count at how many girls or women who are VERY attractive like the type who turn heads in the street who are with douche bag high-flyer executives or managing director guys driving a Ferrari with a 6 digit bank balance. Yeh you can call the girls and the guys materialistic or whatever but its how it seems.

    Has any men ever come across very attractive girls/women that are with a regular guy who is not ugly and not Brad Pitt either and has a regular job and is not some flashy jerk? I hear a lot these days about how the gender role shifts in the workplace have changed and a lot more women are high-flyers making big money where as once upon a time it was mostly only the guys who were. Because of this it subsequently means they have their own money meaning they do not feel the need to have a man to provide for them so they will be more open to the type of men they will get involved with.

    What are your experiences or thoughts on this whole thing? are very attractive girls or women seemingly only into guys with the green?
     
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    My life is far more Detroit 2013 than Detroit 1955 (for a metaphorical interpretation). In spite of that I've never had issue interesting (very attractive) women... unless I let myself get neurotic and make a Big Deal out of it.
     
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    what???!! ?????
     
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    I'm saying I'm a broke/in-debt train wreck of an individual who, in spite of that, has never had issue attracting women when I feel so inclined. Money is (paradoxically enough) immaterial on that front in my experience.
     
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    Ohhh is it down to looks or confidence? both perhaps.
     
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    Looks... PAH! Only if "smokin' hot" women are into severely overweight bespectacled frizzy haired prats. :p
    Confidence, brother. It's the secret of all Great Men (of which I do not count myself :rolleyes:)
     
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    you just have a way with the ladies eh?
     
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    It can be down to 'confidence' & money - the confidence to know how to treat a woman, any woman, right and the where-with-all to do it.
    The 'smoking hot' women are maybe tired of being hit on by immature youths and may like somebody who knows enough about life to realize there is more to it than just fucking.
    Most of the 'douche bag high flyers' didn't get there by being idiots.
     
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    I wouldn't go so far as to claim that, but I'm doing something right. :p
    Definitely agree. Money definitely provides the simplest means to an end as far as providing the proper treatment of a woman. Which makes it easier to be confident.

    Note: I won't claim to be anything more than a youth who is pretty naive on much of life, but I do know there's more to it than just fucking... There's foreplay, too. :rolleyes:
     
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    It's interesting to me that no women have commented on this yet. Let me weigh in...by no means am I saying I am smoking hot or whatever, but I am a woman. No, women don't care as much about money as you guys think we do. We do care about how we are treated. We care about a man's character...is he smart, hard working, funny, honest?

    First of all, do you really know what the back story is with these couples you are observing?? How do you know they got together when the guy had money? Maybe, she fell for him when he was a "regular" guy (as you implied), admired his drive, and supported him while he became financially successful.

    Another thing is, as a woman, I know it takes a lot of work to stay in shape, take care of yourself, etc. Maybe the wives of financially successful men look better simply by virtue of their ability to get to the gym, afford nice clothes, hair, nails, whatever. It is much harder for a woman who is working full time to do all that. I am not saying there is anything wrong with it, either way....it's just simply a fact of life.

    So, you shouldn't get hung up on money, etc.

    Women appreciate sincerity, confidence with humility, and being treated with respect.
     
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    It's the complete package -

    He doesn't have to be Rockefeller or a Calvin Klein model, but he has to support himself, take care of himself. Some physical attraction. Plus, how he treats me and how he makes me feel.
     
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    Does having a passport come into the complete package? ;):)
     
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    Solvent..... Tick
    Im Fit....... Tick
    Can take care of myself.... Tick
    Physical attraction....Tick
    I make you wet....Tick

    Have passport....Tick lol

    how am i going compared to other candidates ? :rolleyes:
     
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    I could fall for you myself Honey Bum (you missed that out) :rolleyes::p
     
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    I did miss it out I didn't want to crush the competition completely give you at least a fighting chance :cool:

    "I could fall for you myself" Trust me mate im someone you cant afford :p
     
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    What I've learned: it would cost jonjo more to be with ginger than it would cost me to be with ginger.
     
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    Thank you mate for giving me at least a slight fighting chance but there is no way I can compete with a Honey Bum - or would want to :)

    I didn't think I'd have to afford you (what is your price as a matter of interest), you are already solvent , that's what attracted me - plus your passport :)

    I am still trying to work that out.o_O
     
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    If your having to ask then you defo cant afford ;)
     
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    I cost you some- but then again I'm just your "housekeeper"
    :cool:
     
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    About that.... There were no cookies last night. Please make sure you do a better job shopping.