About my situation: I'm(42)married with a BI wife(37) that loves a threesome with another female, and only if the female is up to par. We are by far not a pro couple at the threesome thing, 6 times so far. So there's this hot young girl(Amanda) in her mid twenty's that I know through a mutual friend that seems eiger on wanting to hang out sometime. And as you can imagine my wife is the better one at picking up another girl, but this time she has put me up to the challenge. This is where Amanda comes back into play. I'm pretty sure I can get Amanda to come to our home for an evening of good food, and some cocktails. After diner and drinks is where the water gets cloudy. How do I go about asking Amanda if she would be ok with a threesome, and at the same time not wanting to ruin a potential long term friendship. My wife says she is not giving me any tips since I stuck my foot in my mouth by saying how hard could it possibly be. lol.. and now look I'm reaching out for advice.