....as stated by a colleague at work. I dont know how we got to talk about sex.... I just asked the guys ( I am the only female there.. it is a computer supplie company) One guy said "I only have sex about 4 times a month" I piped up "Oh my god, if I had sex once a week, I would kill myself! That is not enough!" He is 35, no children, been with his partner for 12 years. They asked me how often I do it, I said about 8 times a week.. they were all shocked! The 35 year old also said, the longer you have been together, the less you want it?? I think he is conditioned to the point that he feels that because he is not having alot of sex, he believes it is not the be all and end all of the relationship. The was another colleague, 21, been with his gf for 3 years, they live together, he said it only happeneds 3 times a week for him!! Again, no kids. What do you think?