Anything to spice up sex life

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by xbearkatx, Sep 13, 2010.

  1. xbearkatx

    xbearkatx New Member

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    were only a young couple but any ideas?
    thanks :)
     
  2. Mittimer

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    If you check around the forum (especially the sexual fetishes and fantasy's) there are tons of posts with people giving their input :)
     
  3. Meee

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    I think I'd be a little intimidated trying to suggest things to a couple like that. Are you sure there aren't any ideas you can share with us first?
     
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    Try not to let life get too routine. Make time even when it seems like there isn't any to go on dates. If you're married, try to keep treating each other as girlfriend - boyfriend.
     
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    Hard to know what to suggest without knowing what you usually do.
     
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    I think just doing random things at odd time keeps things interesting. Also trying to do what each other has always wanted to do but not been able to do, so long and you both are willing. Ex: golden shower, foot job.

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  7. Barbwire

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    I agree with what Mee said, but just have to add, how on earth can you be to the point where you are looking to spice things up when you are doing all that you do now?

    "we have vids & pics for sale also do cam shows
    we have extreme vids

    we do camshows, extreme fetish vids, Pics allsorts and we do video requests"

    You use the word "extreme" in your ad twice. Don't know if once your gone to that point if there's any place else to go.
     
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    For me, spicing up your sex life is tied to communication in the relationship and making time for each other which can allow the two of you to connect on a more personal level. Being able to connect on a deeper personal level helps to keep your sex life interesting and exciting, I feel. Without knowing what your interests, without knowing your boundaries, and without knowing how long the two of you have been together it is very difficult to recommend anything. The one neutral thing I would recommend would be anal sex.
     
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