anyone NOT into regular porno?

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  1. clubber_stevens

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    I was just curious I suspect I will be in the minority here but I wondered if anyone here dislikes or just does not get turned on by regular straight porno? I mean just video's of a couple screwing and doing other various sexual acts. I have seen vids and pics of it but have never found this arousing whatsoever even if the people doing it are attractive. I prefer simple softcore/glamor of girls stripteasing and dancing naked perhaps or just teasing taunting in various sexy ways with no sex toys and no touching of other people or even themselves. I just cannot stand anything else.

    Does anyone else feel the same? I am hoping I am not the only one here but I don't know I may well be.
     
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  2. CaramelLady

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    My husband and I used to watch it together decades back. The porn of today I do not watch. I tried and it seemed to be all the same, boring......
     
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    what is it about the newer porn you dislike especially if you don't mind me asking. I just curious.
     
  4. CaramelLady

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    It all seems to be the same.........
     
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    Agreed CS, I am also but big into porn preferring instead sensuality.
    When I do watch it is almost always "loving" or "seductive" type scenes rather than full on banging.
    However a good looking couple naked together I certainly find arousing.
    Each to his own, it's whatever rocks your boat.
    My SO loves watching MFM action and so I watch a bit together then go down on her while she continues viewing until she can't resist anymore whereupon she throws her i-pad aside to fully revel in her orgasms :)
     
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    It all seems to be the same because it is all to the same script. 1. Get clothes off female. Check out pussy closeup. 2. Woman pulls his dick out. Fondles and sucks object in step 2. 3. Woman flops down on back on bed/couch/desk/table and spreads legs. 4. Man spreads pussy lips for closeup. Man dives into hot cunnilingus. 5. Woman kneels on bed near the edge/on floor leaning on bed, presenting a choice of holes. 6. Man jerks off to get hard. 7. Man rubs tip of cock up and down dry slit to make it slippery. 8. Man runs dick into pussy/ass. Man pumps dick in and out, until he's got dick in as far as she can take it. 9. Man flips woman over on back, holds legs up high in front of himself, sticks dick back in up to the balls. Man thrusts in and out until he's afraid he's gonna cum. Pulls out. 10. Man lies on back on bed/floor/sofa/chair with dick sticking up. 11. Woman straddles man's middle/face and takes cock in pussy/mouth/ass and rides making agonizing sounds. And on and on and boringly on until all positions have been worked, then man jerks off until he cums on woman's cunt/vulva/belly/tits/face/tongue/bedspread/floor etc. Woman cleans up sucking and licking cock 'til scene ends or another man shows up on the scene and it starts all over again. BORING!
    Next edition will cover badly focused amateur shots where you can't see cock inserted but know he's probably doing it. Future episodes will include two women getting it on, professional and amateur, old and young and Solo. Everybody had enough?:D
     
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    I am not into porn nor even softcore/glamour.
    I just cannot get into it, it all seems so unreal. It is totally boring
    With films that have a story line - fine I can get engrossed but as oldkid says porn has no story line.
    A 'good' film needs you to use your own imagination somewhere along the line , porn leaves nothing to the imagination.
    My cock is activated by my brain and porn don't activate my brain.
     
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    Honestly I use the type of pornography you described above (the hardcore Man Fucks Woman type) only when I'm having a mentally lazy day. If for whatever reason I'm feeling unable or uninterested in using a bit of imagination (like Jonjo stated above) then I'll put on a no-imagination-necessary flesh flick. Normally though I'm in favor of pin-ups, solo nudes, and stripteases. (Good Lord am I a huge fan of pin-up girls.)
     
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    I do watch and prefer group themes
     
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    I have not watched any for a while now. Sometimes I take breaks because it messes with my head a bit.
     
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    I'm more or less the same. I will very occasionally look at hardcore, but often so many things about it tend to turn me off, including extreme close-ups of anal action, women who aren't into it (and the way they do it, I know most women I know wouldn't be into it) etc.

    I like women who pose nude, and perhaps tease a bit. I particularly like pictures or videos (or live shows) that I can find pretty even if I'm NOT particularly horny that day. :)
     
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    My husband and I watched older porn. The movies a least tried to have a plot. Some were very novel like Cafe Flesh and Autobiography of a Flea. We counted on Ron Jeremy for comic relief and Vanessa Del Rio was funny and sexy.

    Today is seems so cookie cutter. Lick it, then stick it.
     
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    I hate the formulas of produced porn. Once you've seen the first minute or two, you know exactly what is going to happen and that is really boring. I don't care for the model type women any more either. My experiences with them have found them almost always to be selfish and/or poor lovers. So, obviously they don't turn me on much.

    I prefer mature natural women. Sadly, most of the videos you find of them are foreign, which isn't a big turn on and/or have them with some barely legal guy, a fat bald guy or a black guy. Not much of a turn on there either. Even the German one's, which I can understand pretty much what the dialogue is about, they are always the same formula.
    Woman gives man oral, man fucks woman in a couple positions, woman finishes off man with stroking/oral and he shoots in her mouth and/or on her face... Boring.

    The Russian videos usually follow that same formula, but sometimes vary. I can't understand a word they say and I really don't know if the noises they make are gratuitous for the camera, or part of the culture. I usually don't care much for them, but the last video that I actually got turned on enough by to jerk off was a Russian one. The guy was maybe 20, which wasn't a plus, but the woman was my age, with a normal body. The action didn't follow the formula, so I watched and got turned on. I took the headphones off to not have to here the continuous grunting that Russian porn is famous for.

    If anyone knows a site that has decent videos with 45-70 year old women and with just regular guys, I'd appreciate the tip.

    xx
     
  16. CaramelLady

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    Thank you Cappy. Being a 56 year old woman with a regular body, I love how you appreciate a mature woman. It would be nice to see two mature people together, but as it stands now, having sex with a mature woman is a fetish. As if appreciating an older woman is abnormal.
     
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  17. CaramelLady

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    I admit that I do find porn boring and unimaginative. However I do like erotic photos. Here sample of a photo I find quite erotic.

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    I suppose it might have been consider a fetish when I was young, but how can anyone really call it abnormal now that I am in my 50's? I've always been attracted to older women, but it always seems the younger ones want into my pants. I learned the hard way as a young man that the young could be a model type tend to be piss poor lovers. Older women are more confident, know what they want and aren't afraid to encourage it. That's a good thing in my book.

    Vanessa was my favorite from the old school flicks and she's still hot at 62.

    xx

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  19. CaramelLady

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    Thank you Cappy and that is the thing of it. It is made to seem abnormal even if the man is mature and the woman is also. It is as if an older woman cannot be attractive or desirable on her own merits.
     
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    For me it's not a fetish it's more like if a women makes me horny it makes me horny lol :).
     
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