Anyone have fantasies they wouldn't even like?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Dreama, Nov 14, 2006.

  1. Dreama

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    I was just wondering, because sometimes, I have fantasies about my SO and I doing things I know I wouldn't particularly love. Such as, I often daydream about my fiance and I having sex doggie style. However, I've found that most of the time, I'm simply too sensitive in the G-spot area to have intercourse that way, and it ends up being too uncomfortable because it is so intense. I wonder why I would have fantasies about such things. There are other things that I do this with also, but this seems to be most frequent. Does anyone else do that, or am I the only freak here? ;)
     
  2. loveit247

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    Nope, not at all. I would not like to act on most of my fantasies. That is why they are fantasies, they are so much better in your mind cos everything goes the way you want it.
     
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    Dreama I have a really random fantasy abouit going with a married guy - now, I would hate to cheat or be cheated on, but the idea of this guy and me just having mind blowing, dirty sex is sooo hot. I thnk its the idea that I could satisfy him in a way another woman (his wife) couldnt....but like I said...something I would never advocate in real life!
     
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    I'm a transient. lol
    I usually fantasize about most people I meet, no matter what they look like. Just a "what if" kind a thing I guess. I usually end up grossing myself out!!! LOL
     
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    As a once married, I've had the "sex for sex sake" type of steamy, "just dig in and go wild" relationship with a women who was married, and in need of some variety in her sex life. She loved her hubby, but she complained that things were a bit monatonous, and lacking in excitment. The hard thing in this type of realtionship is that it's easy for one of the parties to fall in love. And when those emotions kick in, rationality sort of goes out the window!
     
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    I have gangbang and bukkake fantasies that in reality I would never actually want to do. Some fantasies are better left as fantasies. Even if you wouldn't do them they can be a hell of a lot of fun to think about.
     
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    I just started posting and I can't believe the shit I say here....
    I totally fantasize my man coming home while I'm sleeping dressed in mask and fake raping me. No pain as in leaving marks pain...but light pain.
    Okay yes fantasies are best left in your mind sometimes I guess is so true!
     
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    The mask thing might be fun! I've been intrigued by the idea ever since I saw that movie, "Eyes Wide Shut". And maybe do it with maybe 4 to 6 people! Everybody J-bird naked, with dim lights. That way there's at least an illusion of anonaminity.
     
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    This can backfire in the wrong circumstance too....
    Friend of mine had a fight with his missus about going drinking with the boys and went out anyway. She stays home and goes to bed early.
    He arrives home late and thinks:idea might climb through window and do the big fake rape scene with wifey.
    He strips off his clothes on the front lawn and starts climbing through the window and gets stuck, she wakes up ,its pitch black she screams and starts hitting him with an umbrella... he yells out "its me, its me" and she belts him even harder..
    Neighbours have heard her screaming and called police, he falls backwards out the window and lands in the garden screaming obcenities at her while she is hanging out the window doing the same then locks him out of he house.
    Police arrive to find him standing on front lawn stark naked yelling at her to let him in the house.
    All this happens at about 2.30am :D
     
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    Actually,
    The wife and I discussed this tonight. We went out shopping today and she saw an old boyfriend from way back when. She later told me that he was the first guy to ever touch her (u know what I mean ;). She also told me later on that she was fantasizing about him after she saw him. She felt bad about having those feelings, I ensured her that I wasn't upset. Afterall, she's coming home with me..

    That leads me up to my fantasy, I'd love to be involved in a threesome with her; wouldn't matter, mfm, fmf. But I know it would more than likely not happen. Mostly die to the fact that she took part in a couple threesomes before we got together. So she has already 'lived out' that fantasy herself.
     
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    I have these too.

    One of my biggest fantasies is being raped by some totally muscle bound guy who is sexy as hell. Gang bangs, too. But in real life? Never.

    One thing I really love, though, and no boyfriend had ever been willing to do .. is to just start having sex with me while I was asleep (with my permission, of course). I would love that. But I guess it creeps them out.

    I have been in relationships where I fantasized about my man inside of one of my girlfriends .... but in reality ... nope.
     
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    Yes me too actually, I regularly fantasise about my boyfriend having sex with another woman and when he's getting close to coming asking my permission to do so, whereas in reality I doubt that I would be that comfortable with the idea of it.
     
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    From my thought-only file, having to do dirty things to cover rent or at a job interview. I would never work for someone I had to do but it makes for a good rub.
     
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    I had a fantasy that Im standing outside as a whore, and one man who drives by picks me up and we drive to his house...when I get there , there are six naked men waiting for me....they force me inside the bedroom against my will, and one after another start fucking me untill I fainted...
     
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    When I was about 14 I fantasised having sex with an elderly teacher from my school, she was acting as a dominatrix...I was a bit disturbed by it and have never spoken of it until just now...30 years on.
     
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    I've always had that fantasy about being raped -including being tied up, commanded/dominated - - the whole fear factor. It would probably be someone I knew, an acquaintance, but I don't know him well. (He has to be really HOT, though ;) )

    Being a crime of violence, however, I would never like/want to be REALLY raped, obviously!
    Just a fantasy - forever...
     
  17. cbrmale

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    The female rape fantasy is surprisingly common, and not just in this thread too. The most commonly held theory about this is that many individuals turn to fantasies about being raped as a means of reconciling naturally-occurring sexual desires with the negative stigma our culture affix to sexual activity. The fantasy serves as a psychological device through which the fantasiser can safely indulge in intense sexual experiences without guilt, by absolving themselves of responsibility for participating in the act. Similar scenarious happen in the popular romance fiction books that many women love.
     
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    Interesting theory, cbrmale. I imagine it's spot-on, as well. I know in my fantasy, I am enjoying the control - and all the kinky, wild things he is doing... all the while pleading, "No! No! Stop!"
    :lol
     
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    I've come across that theory in my own bit of research. I don't know that I agree with it, but it makes sense. I share the same fantasy, but, for me, I think there's just something incredibly exciting about being dominated to such an extreme. It speaks to that part of the mind that links sexual arousal to primal instinct.

    Those passages in romancey kind of novels are some of my favorites...
     
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    if you are interested in rape porn, I sometimes visit violentpleasures.com...