How do I bring out or even find out if my SO has a kinky wild side? Sex is good but it generally plays out like this. I use one of her vibrating toys to make her cum, then I get penetration and make her cum a few more times before I finish then it's off to the bathroom to clean up then off to bed. It's really frustrating because I want so much more. I'm a very sexual oriented person and she says she is but I've never truly seen it. Tried bondage once or twice but very soft bondage, and it was the same senerio toy, sex, bed. I'm just curious to find out how to bring that side out in her or find out if she even has that side. She doesn't want me watching porn or anything else, she's ok with me masturbating but only to pictures of her that I occasionally get to snap. Just wondering if anyone had any thoughts? Also, don't get me wrong she is very loving and goes well out of her way to please me in all aspects but the bedroom. Is she just not into it???