My wife insists that she cums first from me licking her when we have sex. When we first started dating she would only let me lick her. At first it was just that but later she started letting me jack or she would give me hand jobs or let me rub on her thigh after she got off. Other than when she was trying to get pregnant that's always been the main way we have sex, me licking her til she cums then me jacking off or rubbing on her unless she just wants to sleep after she gets off. Anyone else have sex like this?