Anyone else have this fantasy?

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  1. sherylann39

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    I have a fantasy I obsess about. Me and my lover walk into a room, and he slaps me, hard, across the face. He yanks my hair and throws me onto the bed, and beats me into submission. He holds me down and fucks me really hard, and chokes me. I stare into his eyes with such love while he fucks me, tears rolling down my cheeks, mixing with the blood.
     
  2. Married M Nh

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    Can't say that I have, I love and respect women too much for that, but everybody has different fantasies, sexual and non sexual. That's what made the world go round
     
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    I like it rough - no face slapping/choking though. A grab from behind the neck to show he has control is fun.
     
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    Most of that really isn't my scene; dominance, rough, hard, even animal like yes but to physically assault, slap & beat into submission doesn't that almost turn it into rape?
    Why in your fantasy does he slap you?
     
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    Everything but the beating.
     
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    Nope. Not even close :rolleyes:
     
  7. sherylann39

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    A lot of women fantasize about rape, actually.
     
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    Do they???????
    I think not!
    Perhaps you need to raise that in another thread - and if you could with maybe someone who has experienced it.
     
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    I wouldn't like anything that even suggested non consensual sex. But if you ask for something rough it could be fun.
     
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  10. gg33

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    I'm not into violence like that.

    I'm very passionate and extremely sensual. But that said, I've found that I've become a lot more assertive, and even dominant in recent years.

    Pulling hair, smacking, mild choking, and name calling are getting more common, but only when it fits the mood. So if you like it somewhat rough you can easily fantasize about me in that role (within reason - no blood).

    I want to add: especially when I fuck couples I'm surprised how often they love it when I manhandle and degrade the wife.
     
  11. sherylann39

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    Um, yes, they do....and I did not come on here to be judged, thank you very much!
     
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  12. sherylann39

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    Don't need your sarcasm
     
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    No body was judging - I never judge but I do question - read my tag line.
     
  14. sherylann39

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    Sorry, sounds like judging to me. And how could you possibly know what women want? I know tons of women who fantasize about rape.
     
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    How does your lover feel? Is he in to it?
     
  16. sherylann39

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    Kind of, but he's afraid of hurting me.
     
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    That's sarcasm??? Lmfao

    Your definition and mine of sarcasm are totally different!!

    Don't fucking accuse me of something I didn't do or say!! :mad:
     
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    OK - New thread started, lets see.
     
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    It's called rape play. There are lots of people into the role play. I've dine this with my husband and we have a safe word if I say it it stops.
     
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    Careful what fantasy you make reality, you may be shocked and not like the real thing.
    However a controlled rape fantasy might do the trick, have safe words for him to stop when you use them.
     
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