Everyone I know thinks alcohol and sex are a perfect pair. Myself on the other hand am disgusted at the thought of making love while my Hubby is under the influence. I rarely ever drink myself, perhaps that's the problem? Even after just a couple beer, I don't want him touching me at all...the sex gets...sloppy, and I just don't find it enjoyable. After a LONG Holiday of parties and get togethers with friends and family, things have once again become sober in our house, and I can't get enough. BUT not ONCE over the holidays did we have sex. He actually mentioned something today about "getting some" all of a sudden...I asked what he meant. He said that I haven't been in the mood lately. I said I sure was, just didn't want to have "sloppy" sex, lol. He doesn't get why I don't like to have sex after acohol, and I guess I don't really either, but there has to be someone else who feels the same? I almost feel like he's not "himself" if he's not completely sober.