Anybody use a fleshlight ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Married M Nh, Apr 20, 2014.

  1. Married M Nh

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    Have you or partner ever use a flesh light? How does it feel. Is it worth the money? I've been thinking of getting one
     
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    I bought my first Fleshlight about 3 years ago. Since then I have acquired quite a few more. The feel can vary greatly depending on the style you purchase (there are MANY options) - so that should not be a problem. As for how close to "the real thing" it feels: I would say that there really isn't anything that compares to a real woman, but a Fleshlight is a satisfying alternative. Compared to other masturbators I have used my Fleshlights are definitely my favorites. I would say it is worth the money - at least it was/is to me personally.
     
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    Wish that you would amend the thread title - got me here to tell of my experiences in the dark :)
     
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    Lol damn spell check gets me every time
     
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    I have thought about getting one too.... I was wondering how realistic they were?
     
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    With the right lube and making sure to have it warmed/heated properly before use you can get a pretty good comparison. Obviously (as I said before) nothing is gonna ever replace the real deal, but a FL is not a bad stand-in.
     
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    I've always wanted to try one just for thrills.....Don't think it would be something I'd use often but who knows!!!!
     
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    Among all the toys my wife has, I have none and I have considered a fleshlight. I heard there are kinds which give a suction feeling too, anyone else heard this or do all have it? Also, do these help erection in any way??
     
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    They all have it so you can adjust suction level to personal preference. I am unsure what you mean by helping with erection. They can help with stamina training and to help you prolong an erection...
     
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    Thanks.. Do you know how the suction works? Battery or by hand?? What I meant by helping with erection is, if you are like semi-hard does it help you get harder - but physically, I mean by helping blood rush
     
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    You would need to be hard enough to penetrate into the FL, but once in then it will help the blood flow and get/keep you full. The suction is managed by hand - there is a cap on the side opposite the entry that you can adjust to your preference. From vacuum-sealed feeling to "normal."
     
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    I fucked mine up :)
     
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    10_3XL is the acknowledged guru on fleshlights. Did you do a review of your collection in the toy review section? Sorry about the bold/italic. Got stuck in that font. I have no experience in that department, I still have two hands and a loving wife. And there's still the two month old calf as backup.:p BTW, they don't work if you have severe ED. Use the Hoover, then the fleshlight. Stick to a low power Hoover.;) If you're on Medicare (US) they'll buy one of these http://www.anactivelife.com/vacurect-1002-penis-pump-p-207.html. Kind of a unique constriction system, and it is quick and easy. Let her work the pump, she'll think it's a hoot. Reward her with a stiff one.:)
     
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    Haven't done so yet, probably should. It's not like I have anything to be ashamed of. :):):)
     
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    "ashamed of." Now where in fuckin' hell did that crawl out from. Buddy, if you're ashamed of anything, you shouldn't a done it, and it explains a lot about why you're so shy and standoffish. Psychiatrists ain't cheap my friend. LOL ashamed0002.gif
     
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    And here I thought I was doing so much better about being forward and open and involved. Maybe it's time to take it up a notch. :p
     
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    Always thought about getting one, just never got around to it. Maybe I should consider it since I'm single again, could be fun. :)
     
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    I never have. It creeps me out