Anybody else ever do this alone?

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  1. Gonecountry

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    Some nights, such as tonight.... I have a strong desire for sex, but find myself alone. Therefore I laydown on the bed with my laptop and browse through sexual sites. Not so much porn, just stuff to tease me. I slowly masturbate off and on for a couple of hours. Everytime I get close to cumming I slow down or stop completely...building the intensity. After a while I cant take no more and I explode. I find that I cum a WHOLE lot more and it is way more intense when I span it out over a longer period of time (obviously, right?)

    Anyways, thanks to that desire, I found this site. There is definately plenty of material here. Lots of sexy stories and everything else!

    Just wandering if I'm the only one that does this. I figured most people just get into it and go fast as they can lol.
     
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    That is the beauty of masturbation... It can be as long or as short as you want it to be. You are totally in control of everything.
     
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    I have not experienced pleasure when I masturbate. I do enjoy having people watch me though.
     
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    Gonecountry no way, you are not alone there!
    That is in fact a good way to train yourself for delayed self gratification and so allow sufficient time for your future partner to cum.
    Enjoy it dude.
     
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    One of the main features of Tantric sex for men is to lengthen the phase between platuea and orgasm to as long as you can manage, which guarantees a very powerful orgasm. This isn't necessarily longer intercourse time per se, just a longer time at that nearly but not quite mark. There are many other aspects, of course, but primarily it's about bigger, whole-body orgasms when having normal sex with your partner.
     
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    Sometimes, when Im alone in the house.....I spend the time doing exactly the same:jerkit

    So no mate...your not alone.....not by a long way:D
     
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    My guy would sometimes get on top and do me till I'm on the edge. I'd have to tell him that I'm close and he would stop completely until the feeling has died down a bit and then would continue this for another maybe 10 or so times. When I did get permission to cum after all of this, it was AMAZING!
     
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    Yep, GC, and it is called "edging". I don't do it as often as I used to before I got into multiple orgasming, but the single orgasms I had when edging were always quite intense and exhausting.
     
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    Okay, i get the whole platuea thing but i still have a question about quantity, what makes one have more cum or less cum? The frequency, the intensity of the orgasm. Help me out here !!!
     
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    hey country i did it one night on the net by myself and shot it over the top of the monitor
    had to laugh at that one. had to find it to clean it up before the wife found it. LOL