any other men turned off by hanging labias?

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  1. clubber_stevens

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    I used to be with a girl who had about an inch or nearly 2 inches of labia hanging out her and when I first saw her naked after a few months of dating it just totally killed my hard-on. She had an exposed labia which hung like at least an inch to 2 inches from her vaginal lips and from a few meters away looked like a penis. So I had sex with her anyway as I didn't want to suddenly stop and hurt her feelings but we broke up after a while due to unrelated reasons but that was 1 one of them in my mind although I never brought it up.

    I don't want to come across as shallow or whatever but I really think it looks gross if a girl is like that down there. That's just fact for me. Men just think by instinct that girls are not supposed to have anything down there and its just supposed to be a slit and that's it I mean yeh realistically not every vagina gonna look like this but the ones that have like 1 or nearly 2 inches of labia hanging out I just find totally offputting.

    I am sure there may be things about the average male body/genitals that some women find a turn off also I mean a lot of women seem to think the average guy is built like Brad Pitt from fight club but its simply not realistic and I know you should accept the woman for how she is blah blah blah but at the end of the day its still a fucking turn off.

    Any men feel the same about this?
     
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    "Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get."

    You cant help not liking but the person is far more important than her bits, after all you start liking the person long before getting to see her bits, understanding and acceptance are key here....
     
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    Well obviously. I thought I got this out the way previously. The point was from a sexual standpoint (lets not forget the forum we are on) its just not attractive.
     
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    Longer labia remind me of flower petals,Orchids come to mind.I was a virgin when my wife and I first had sex,upon seeing her external genitals I was blown away that she was born with a flower between her legs.So my answer to the OP would be no.
     
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    Just more for me to play with..
     
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    I cannot speak for Ginger but personally the answer is that the attraction is in the entirety not just in individual bits.
    To 'grade' individual bits, with the possibility of any one being classed as a turn-off is to lower sex to a form of 'window shopping' - going from Yes I want that to OK I'll give it a pity fuck.
    What are you going to do the day you 'fall in love' and find that she has labia lips that don't comply with your 'pass mark'?

    I, like Ed69, find a woman's genitals a thing of beauty and wonder, in their many variations and complexity - be they tight pink rose buds to the hanging gardens of Babylon.
     
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    I have never come across a females genitala Ive not liked let alone come to worship :D
     
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    Thanks for the signature idea!:cool:
     
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    You thieving little ..................... :)
     
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    LOL!:p
     
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    Never met a post that turned me off
     
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    You have every right to your opinion. I don't find large women attractive.... you like what you like. I personally don't mind hanging labia that much... though I've only encountered them a couple of times.
     
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    To each his or her own. Some women and some men are turned off by a small penis or overlarge for that matter.
     
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    The large labia I encountered were large because they were enforced with blood from arousal.

    I like that.
     
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    Love em how I find them same as boobies!
     
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    It wouldn't ever cause me to say no if she had "hanging" or "longer" labia. However, from a strictly aesthetic standpoint I do not find it particularly appealing.

    There's nothing wrong or shallow about having a preference when it comes to physical appearance of your partners. If it limits you from being with a partner or from staying with a partner - that is when it falls closer to (if not into) the shallow category.

    Just my opinion.
     
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    In many decades of sexual activity I've only seen a couple pairs in real life. Didn't bother me much, but it didn't do much for me either!
     
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    I like 'em a little long if they're an erotic zone for her. Like to suck on them if she likes it. Gives my tongue a rest. SmileyJakinoff.gif
     
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    Kinda thinking we should all just post:

    I LOVE VAGINA!

    and call it a day. :D ;) :p
     
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