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  1. Snake21605

    Snake21605 New Member

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    OK all here it is:

    I am a male and when me and my g/f get intimate we enjoying masterbating for each other. We both really enjoy watching each other. Now she can't really get off by herself...I can but she can't and when we want to cum together I have to wait and hold off. Any ideas on how she can help herself along...?

    Also I want to give her a "show". I want her to just watch and enjoy (pleasuring herself would be nice...=>). So here is my other question...does anyone have an idea of how I can masterbait for her, something she would really enjoy watching and that would really get her hott!?

    Thanks in advance...
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Toys for her might really help her orgasm. There are countless on the market to choose from. Although since joining I've heard lots about the Hitachi Magic Wand. Some vibrations on her clit shouls work wonders to helping her orgasm.

    As for putting on a show for her, I'm not going to be much help. Strangely, I'm quite shy that way. But aside from the typical stroking, if both of you are into it, some anal toys might provide some exciting viewing. :)
     
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    Thanks for your quick response. She already has an assortment of "toys" that she 'LOVES'.

    As for anal, we have decided we are no into that....atleast not now.

    Thanks!
     
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    Here is an idea. Video tape yourself masturbating and then leave it in the vcr/dvd player for your gf to find. That would be a shocking sexy surprise.
     
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    What if someone else gets there first Doc?!
     
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    Well that would be bad. Ha. The thing is make sure no one else would be around. Tell her to just turn on the vcr/dvd player when you would want her to find it, that way you know it will only be for her eyes.
     
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    If the two of you have a sense of humor in the bedroom, you could dress up like a Chippendale and do a little sexystriptease for your woman. As much as she'd get a laugh out of it, she's also probably find it incredibly erotic. :) Just an idea.
     
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    Can she get off when she is alone? I know you said she can't get off herself but is that all the time or just when you are both doing it together?
     
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    she doesn't do anything by herself...nor I. we do things together...
     
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    Is this for real?
    Get a grip FFS and work it out between you like billions of other couples have done before!
    You ask for advice and then ignore it, so why ask?
     
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    Elivs.....??????? what are you talking about.....?