Any guys here intimidated by a vibrator?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Peregrine, Jan 25, 2008.

  1. Peregrine

    Peregrine New Member

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    Is that ridiculous or what?
    Having dinner with another couple. Somehow the subject of vibrators came up. The guy says "no way would we use one of those. I'm all she needs. Wouldn't you worry she might not need you anymore?"
    Please... The wife and I both enjoy them. We use that for awhile and then inevitably she lets me know "'enough of the plastic thingy. I want the real thing now..."

    Any gents here feel like my friends? That a vib might make you inadequate?
    If so, lose that thought and get one!!! :D
     
  2. MikeDog

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    I agree with you nothing be be afraid of its just another tool in the sexual shed for her pleasure. I can't vibe a couple thousand times a minute so it does do the job differently which is fine :)
     
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    Wow
    Intimidated, No way. I love using them on the Woman
    and listening to her moan is music to me.
    I have bought her dozens over the years.

    Just a further question on the subject.
    Would you buy Her one for valentines day.

    Hiker
     
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    Intimidated by a vibrator? Umm...no. :eyes Maybe I'm just comfortable in my masculinity and all, but I've bought my wife every vibe she has a I believe, and I enjoy using them on her, watching her using it on herself, or hell, even just knowing she's upstairs buzzing away alone gives me wood.

    But ya know...some of those vibes might make really good husbands: they don't leave the toilet seat up, they don't leave clothes on the floor, and all they need are a quick bath and fresh batteries periodically. Oh shit! My wife might run away with "the Rabbit"! :cool :D:D:D

    And yes, I like having a vibe on me too! There's a couple of the rubber cock rings with bullet-type vibes that are "couple's toys", which are very cool for both of us, but any vibe actually feels nice in the right area. Toys can bring some new experimentation to your sex life...I like toys!

    BD
     
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    BD said

    Just make sure that the Rabbit pays for the trip.

    Hiker
     
  6. OralOrville

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    Hell no! Taking pictures of my gf writhing with one on the clit and the other in the Deep End can totally want me to devour the end result! Agree?
     
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    Hell...

    ...no. If she doesn't have one, get her one. Vibrators are awesome! I am inadequate to the machine sometimes. The machine is not me. I'm inadequate to my truck for going to the store. Going for a walk is great. My handsaw sucks compared to my power saws.

    One of the glorious things in life is watching her have a mind bending orgasm, buzzing herself or you buzzing her while you're pinching or massaging her nipples or fingering her or she's sucking you.

    My God. Tell that boy to grow up. It's a sexual aid. Not a replacement. :dgrin
     
  8. OralOrville

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    Totally agree. Watching her have a mind bending orgasm triggers one of my own! And then she say's "Go there and lick"!!!
     
  9. Peregrine

    Peregrine New Member

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    Yea, that's the response I expected here. My friend is a nimrod.
    Hell my wife sometimes uses ONE OF THE SEVERAL we have on me.... and she gets me off with it!!
    Never expected that the 1st time. Now sometimes I use it when SHE'S not around!!! :D\
     
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    I hear ya! When she's not around I like her 'dual action'. One for the clit and one for the vagina. A primative "Rabbit". Feels great when you put your penis between the two forks.
     
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    No, I use them all the time with her and she's free to use them when I'm not around.
     
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    all is well and good here...until she breaks out the jack hammer...then I cry...
     
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    He or she who dies with the most toys

    WINS!
     
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    my and my wife have an agreement, if i use one on her she uses it on me, great fun to
     
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    My wife doesn't like vibrators because she says she gets too "sensitive." Does anyone else experience that?
     
  16. OralOrville

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    Yeh! If found that slow and gentle and the right size does the trick. It also helps if she's wet first.
     
  17. Chelsea60

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    Glad to see you guys are not intimidated.
     
  18. Puss_in_boots

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    My SO was, at least for a while.

    He finally understood when I explained that vibrators are nothing more than sexual enhancers and masturbatory aids, serving more or less the same purpose that porn serves for men. Vibrators are not a replacement for flesh against flesh any more than jerking off to porn is a substitute for sex.

    When he finally understood it was like a lightbulb turned on in his head. :)
     
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    NO! I'm no ways intimidated by a vibrator.Matter of fact,I love using toys with a woman during sex.I love seeing women pleasure themselves with them as well as using them on women.It's a big turnon to me.
     
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    Lucky for me, my guy has no vibrator reservations at all! He loves to watch me scream as he works "Big Boy" around in me.