any advice or tips

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  1. Kirin

    Kirin New Member

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    Wife wants to try anal but is scared of the pain...anyone know a way to make her feel better...or dull the pain?
     
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    Get anal desensitizing lube. I'll point you in the right direction if you're interested. Also, use LOTS of lube if you opt out of the desensitizing one.

    Having seen your man bits before I know how big you are. While you're big, you aren't giant, so anal shouldn't be too much of an issue.

    Try getting graduating toys so you can stretch her anus, or even use your fingers prior. Working one, two ect until shes comfortable and ready for your cock.

    Just forcing it in will cause pain every time.
     
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    thanks hun
     
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    Tunnel not funnel.:eek
     
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    Alright now, how come Mitt got to see your goods Kirin and not me ????????
     
  6. Alwayslearningsex

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    You have toys? If you have something smallet than you to begin with and after a few times you try the real thing, using lube again.
    Start gentle and slow, just like a woman's first intercourse.
    Never done it so others who know may say once the head is in it's easier, let's hear from others on that.
     
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    Mitt happens to be his ex-girlfriend from high school :p
     
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    interesting......
     
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    It's not as weird as it sounds. We're both older and married now. He's got beautiful daughters. We had a semi-clean breakup and were friends long after. Nothing odd or "interesting" about it really.