hat hat hat hat Ok... I need some test subjects. (cowboylover? you're always up for stuff like this) Anyway... the goal is to figure out this female ejaculation thing. Some people say only rare women can do it, some people debunk it as myth (but we know that's not true). So here's the deal: a few of you ladies try this technique (which I found on the internet of course) out and report back: 1. Pee before you start. very important so you know you really don't have to pee. 2. Get yourself going -- vib, dildo, whatever works. Get yourself very stimulated until you know you want to cum. 3. Now stop with the clitoral stimulation or whatever you were doing. Start rubbing your g-spot -- either with fingers or with a toy. 4. The sensation of having to pee will begin to rise. 5. Here's the tricky part-- INSTEAD of instinctively holding the pee sensation back, PEE. That's right. Do exactly as if you are going to pee. Remember two things: 1. you can't pee during sex -- it's physically impossible and 2. you just pee'd anyway... so you have no pee left. So at this point, when it becomes intense you and think you are going to pee... DO IT. This supposedly will trigger the ejaculation. Morever consider two things: 1. if you keep at it -- the feelings will become more intense and explosive. 2. I did read one instructional that says objects inside the vagina when the moment of ejaculation is about to occur can stifle it or prevent it. So that particular guide suggested you pull out your fingers or toys when the moment comes. Ok... go off and do your homework ladies! I'm going to try to get my wife to try it sometime this weekend if she's willing.