Ok, here is my scoop. My wife of 11 years and I have always had a great sex life, but with our youngest of 2 just turning 2, it is REALLY getting good again. I expect by May 31 we will have had sex 30 times this month give or take, pretty good for being in our mid and late 30's! I'm no porn star or anything:lol, but I have of course measured and am in roughly the 95th percentile for length and girth. We tried anal a few times when we were first married, but she couldn't take for more than a minute at a time. I only came in ass once, and it kind of went away for years. I give her oral sex every chance I get, and recently I've been fingering her ass and licking and so on. She really enjoys it, thinks it's hot, and isn't afraid to tell me, I've been in there every chance I get now! With her comfort with this, I figured she had anal in her past, she doesn't like talking sexual past, but told me her only long term relationship she had, she had a LOT of anal with, and really enjoyed it. He was rather small though, thus vaginal sex wasn't as exciting as anal. She is offering it to me again, but has actually used the word "terrified":ugh. I haven't taken her up on it yet but REALLY want to as I think it's super hot. I guess my question is for girls whom have had big guys for anal, do you have suggestions? Will she get used to it? How many times does it take? The times we did it before we just used the "lube" from her pussy, would astroglide or whatever lube help a lot? Should she be on top? She is an M.D., so I don't think she is worried medically, but I don't want it to be too painful for her. Suggestions appreciated.