And what makes a good female partner?

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  1. sensless

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    It's only fair to ask, since there's a thread about husbands and one about marriage.

    What makes a good wife?
     
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    For me it starts with friendship. After that, there has to be a passion to share in my desires, dreams, ideals pleasures, goals and aspiration. It is unrealistic to hope to find someone that agrees all the time but if you share the deeper desires, you can form a bond that transcends the self. The bond creates one from two.

    A good wife is someone that you can find transcendence with.
     
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    That is how I'd describe what my mother means to me and what I mean to her.

    Interesting.
     
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    Compassionate, understanding, non judgemental, great cuddles, tolerant, obedient, well mannered, good with kids, happy to see me relax, never complains, always welcomes me home treats me like I am a Master!
    No woman exists close to that but my dog has all those attributes ;)
     
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    Sounds like a proper dog.

    Who's walking your dog today?
     
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    A Good Female Partner is distinguished by the notable characteristics of being a Female and a Partner.

    A mass consensus finds that said Female Partner must also be, in fact, Good (rather than myriad other descriptors) to be properly categorized as a Good Female Partner. It would be ill-advised for one to say that one has a Good Female Partner when, in truth, one's Female Partner is Less/More/Other Than Good.

    Though there have been recent arguments that a Male - equal in Goodness - could also represent a Good Female Partner, this is a fallacious statement as there is the noted lack of Female in this Good Partner. So, while this Partner may represent a Good Male Partner, he cannot be labelled accurately or appropriately as a Good Female Partner. At best, one could have a Male acting as a Good "Female" Partner.

    Additionally, relationships wherein there is no Partner cannot be said to fall under the label of one having a Good Female Partner.

    Boom. Nailed it. :rolleyes:
     
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    I didn't get it. Could you rephrase it?
     
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    Apologies, but I'm afraid that the highly... ah... technical answer I provided above is the only way it can be put. :p
     
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    Damn, another flat pack with instructions I can't read!
     
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    If only there were a How To guide similar to an IKEA How To - all simple pictures and no confusing words. :confused:
     
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    @10_3XL is trying to be politically correct whilst stomping heavy footed through a minefield ;)
     
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    Priceless!
     
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    Correction; who is running the dog today?
     
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    It does! It's called Penthouse. Or something.
     
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    Probably the only how to manual most men will follow very closely rather than wing it ;)
     
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    the woman I have been with for 20 yrs
     
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    Someone down to earth, not high on herself
    doesn't manipulate or try to, feed BS to her guy
    not insecure if her guy talks to another woman ...... if there is no history of cheating in the past.
    not needy
    capable of doing things, not always expecting or demanding for her guy to do things for her ...... a loving guy doesn't mind doing things for his SO
     
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    Wow, that's a great compliment to her. Lovely post.
     
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    Any guy who uses Penthouse as his How To is probably convinced he's doing well, but his significant other begs to differ.
     
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    Aside from the "treats me like a Master, and dog parts, I agree with both of these. Good is a subjective word. I include taking good care of themselves too. Attractiveness is part of a relationship. Sure everyone ages, but you can minimize some of it. I've seen so many women and men let themselves go to hell after they marry. While this may be fine with some, in my personal situation, it isn't. I'm not like Trump, but I do like a partner that is very attractive. I fortunately married a heath fanatic along with holding the above listed attributes.... though she is a little OCD.
     
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