Yeah, the title of this thread is a bit confused, which is how it should be . I don't get this girl at all. People are all unique of course, but I like to think that I, sort of, understand most individuals I meet, more or less. This girl, Kayla, I don't get. Help me figure her out if you can. Not that it is the end of the world or anything. I have had small crushes on strippers before (and one big case of falling in love, but that’s long ago). It will pass. As I mentioned in another thread, I often go to strip clubs, and sometimes visit prostitutes. However, I don't like the process of contacting random call girls at all, so when Kayla said that she might be interested in meeting outside the club I got my hopes up. I already liked her, and I have my sexual frustrations, so why not? I met her at a local strip club and I immediately noticed that she was a bit more, shall we say, "hands on" than most of the other strippers. When stripping she’s not shy at all. Once I got really hard in my pants, and when she sat down on it I jerked a bit with pain. She said sorry, and put her hand down my pants to adjust the way my cock was bent. That was a new one for me. I am also pretty sure she had an orgasm first time she gave me a private dance. Either that, or it was the best fake I have ever experienced. I had my hand on my leg and she basically rubbed herself against it, and against my bulge, until she started spasming and nearly fell off You might think this is why I like her so much, or the fact that she is really sexy, with a kinda cute smile. All that is sort of true, but in fact I'm also a complete softy. One major thing that made me warm up to Kayla is that she is sweet and not pushy at all. Many of the other girls will go after my money very aggressively. Kayla always lets me know when a song is over and asks politely if I would like another. She gave me tips on how to save money when using my credit card in the club. I always tip her well when I can, but once I told her that I had to hold back a bit on my cash until my next paycheck comes. She whispered during the dance that she could continue anyway because my entrance fee receipt came with this coupon thingy which gave me an extra free dance, and by the way, she didn't start right at the beginning of the first song so I could have that one free as well. So I got three songs for the price of one, and the reasons why were probably totally made up After this, I asked her if she would like to have my email. She was happy to take it and promised to write, but then lost it (or so she said), but later gave me her own email. I told her that I would write to her about possibly meeting outside, which again she seemed totally happy about. When I did, she never wrote back. Then, last time, I happened to be dressed a bit better than usual. When Kayla saw me, she told me she really liked the way I looked, and brought over her stripper-friend to show her that “this is the guy I have been telling you about, he’s really nice!”. Her friend immediately started subtly pushing for me to have more dances with both of them. I don’t really blame her, it’s their job, but Kayla was as usual sweet, almost a bit shy, and not pushy at all, so I forgot that I was a bit put off by her promising to write when she never did. I politely said no thanks to her friend and asked for a three-song private dance with Kayla only, and I said “this time I will actually pay for it, though I really appreciate how nice you were last time”. Kayla mumbled something and I could have sworn that she blushed. Then Kayla went a bit nuts, and broke all the rules in the house . First off, after I showed interest in her breasts, she let me suck on them, and she led my hand to her pussy, and let my fingers go inside. Again she put her hand in my pants to “adjust” my cock, stroking it a bit while doing so. Then she asked if she could have a taste. I said “of course”, and she looked around, pulled it out a little, and sucked on me for a little while. Then someone dropped some coins outside by the bar (pretty far from us really), and she abruptly covered me again, and put herself on top of me. She said “shit, they could see us, I’m sorry”. I asked if they would kick her out of the club if they saw her doing this she said “they totally should kick me out for this, I couldn’t help myself. I’m sorry”. I smiled and chuckled a little, and then she lightened up. I asked again if maybe we should meet outside instead. She said she would like that. But again, she never wrote back. WTF? I’m still amused by the whole thing . I will definitely see her again unless they do kick her out. But I am also completely perplexed. If we meet outside, she could do all this without any repercussions, and I would pay her well if she wants. But she never writes back. I suspect that she is a nymphomaniac. She might be doing this with a few customers, but definitely not all. She is very very sweet, but I wonder...and I hope I don’t come across as full of prejudices here.....I am worried that she is a bit psychologically damaged somehow. What do you think?