Analingus

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by cook74, Aug 14, 2015.

  1. cook74

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    I'm not great at starting new threads or talking about myself that much so this is harder than it might seem.

    About 6 months ago while I was going down on my wife she shifted a little to have my tongue near her arse, I stayed for a short time but it was too new for us.

    The last few times that we have made love (in 6 months as it is infrequent:() I have tried to explore this more and realized she really likes it even though her libido is low.

    Personally I have become obsessed and have been watching lots of rimming and anal porn trying to get tips (and get off ;))

    I'd like tips on how to get my wife more aroused during rimming and anal play, but as I mentioned she won't be into really wild things.

    For example I'm looking at using a butt plug while giving her head. Would that be something that might work? I'm scared to broach the subject with her incase it scares her off so I want it to be spontaneous (sort off)
     
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  2. MariaMaria

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    I've only had one experience with rimming (done on me) and it was enjoyable. However, I can't offer any tips. I do think the butt plug and head combo would be a nice one, but the right person to ask is her, really. And while I understand that you don't want to scare her off, doing it in the moment without previous discussion could be problematic if she doesn't like it and it turns her off. So, maybe it'd be a good idea to talk about a bit beforehand. Just my 2 cents!
     
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    I suggest continuing how you started. each time you do it, go a little further. Maybe you can use her wetness to lube your finger and press your finger to her hole. The best part about sex is that exploration, She will either stop you or moan in delight. If you are only taking baby steps, its easy to do post game analysis afterward. If she liked, that may be the time to bring up new ideas.

    ie.
    Her: Wow you were great tonight. I really came hard.
    You: I was so turned on playing near you ass, that was fun.
    Her I liked that.
    You. Yeah Iwasnt sure, when I put my finge there if yopu would like hat
    her: It surprised me. I'm not sure about that, but it felt good.
    You we can try more of that next time.
    Her hmmmm I don't know.
    You well if it felt good
    her. Yeah I just never thought I was "that" girl
    You I just want you to feel as good as possible
    Her. You make me feel great.
    You You make me feel great. if a finger is to weird, what about a toy?
    Her You are naughty.
    You Only for you baby....

    Next thing you know, you are shopping together for butt plugs.

    Obviously, that is one of an infinite number of scenarios. My point is that you need to talk to her, and I suggest talking after sex rather than before. There is nothing quite like post orgasmic bliss, to encourage sexual communication.
     
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    Wow! This is the first time I have looked at this thread since I posted it. Silly of me:oops:. It just somehow got lost and forgotten.

    Thanks so much for the replies! I know I'm a little late with that.

    We have done this a couple of times since my original post and it has been great! She really wants me down there and I love being there (we do a lot of pussy play first and she orgasms while I lick or push my thumb on her anus) and that is how she cums.
    I would love to incorporate a butt plug into our play but she is hesitant still (maybe she could use it on me ;)).
     
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    I luv using the tip of my tongue on a woman's asshole. Most women who have allowed me to do so have said the sensation is wonderful.
    It really turns me on.............................

    Licking Your Ass Gets Me Soooo Hot.gif
     
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    I enjoy doing it, but have yet to find a girl who really wanted it done.
     
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    What whybother said. Also, be sure to only broach that area (pun fully intended) right after a mutual shower...
     
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    How about some penislingus?

    Giving Her Every Fucking Inch.gif
     
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    Love eating ass and receiving it
     
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    It's great when she bends me over I'll spread my ass And she tounge fucks my ass And jerks me off.
     
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    I love when Shyguy licks my ass. I get so turned on. Plus he can then fuck my ass without lube
     
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    That is pretty hot!
     
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    Licking and sucking my wife´s ass turns me on. I like the smell and the taste, especially when she is not completetly clean. I often put my finger inside and lick it, that turn me on. I even taste my own ass juce but I haven´t dared to taste poop yet, that comes later.
     
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    Wow! I don't know what to think or say about some of those previous post. I will eat pussy all day and maybe a clean ass but to lick a dirty ass, and love the smell, I don't think so but too each his own. Good luck!
     
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    Very interesting and informative thread.
    Being very 'vanilla' I had always though analingus was an Irish airline.
    As I have not had any recent experience with airlines either I await clarification from @ginger
     
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