Anal

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  1. Londyn

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    So we haven't done anal in a while and I badly need it. He fingers my ass but can't get it in there. I was going to use my dildo to get me open because it fits nice and snug. Ne suggestions
     
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    Relax, lubrication and patience.
    Especially if you want it, it will happen.
     
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    Try a butt plug. They have a nice gradient thickness that will help open you up slowly.
     
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    Slowly work on stretching it out. One finger, then two, then three. Slowly work your tight ass. The more turned on and relaxed you are the easier it will be
     
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  5. Londyn

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    He usually fingers my ass nice to open it up
     
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    Does he lick it as well? He should be worshipping your ass making it nice and ready to get fucked.
     
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    He does not often enough
     
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    I'd do it everyday...
     
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    Never did anal with my ex Hubby. After my divorce I hooked up with an old boyfriend, and he tried fingering me while I sucked him off, my ass was just too tight. We had "normal" sex and took a shower together, after we soaped each other up, he fingered me good, turned me around slipped it right in, and I was converted LOL I had never felt so much pleasure in my life.
     
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    I've had anal several times with different women but only one really REALLY enjoyed it. What's the feeling like compared to vaginal stimulation ?
     
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    It just feels good in a different way :)

    Much like I assume an orgasm would feel great but different if it was from a prostate massage vs normal wanking...
     
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    see, I've never had a prostate orgasm. I've tried unsuccessfully, but I can understand I guess :)
     
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    I don't know, it just feels so good. The guy I did it with was very gentle, and talked me through it, he didn't try and ram it in, he was gentle and eased it in. I remember taking a deep breath and thought "DAMN", but as he eased it in and out, I was in heaven.
     
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