Anal

So we haven't done anal in a while and I badly need it. He fingers my ass but can't get it in there. I was going to use my dildo to get me open because it fits nice and snug. Ne suggestions

 

Relax, lubrication and patience.
Especially if you want it, it will happen.

 

Try a butt plug. They have a nice gradient thickness that will help open you up slowly.

 

Slowly work on stretching it out. One finger, then two, then three. Slowly work your tight ass. The more turned on and relaxed you are the easier it will be

 

He usually fingers my ass nice to open it up

 

Does he lick it as well? He should be worshipping your ass making it nice and ready to get fucked.

 

He does not often enough

 

I'd do it everyday...

 

Never did anal with my ex Hubby. After my divorce I hooked up with an old boyfriend, and he tried fingering me while I sucked him off, my ass was just too tight. We had "normal" sex and took a shower together, after we soaped each other up, he fingered me good, turned me around slipped it right in, and I was converted LOL I had never felt so much pleasure in my life.

 

I've had anal several times with different women but only one really REALLY enjoyed it. What's the feeling like compared to vaginal stimulation ?

 

It just feels good in a different way

Much like I assume an orgasm would feel great but different if it was from a prostate massage vs normal wanking...

 

see, I've never had a prostate orgasm. I've tried unsuccessfully, but I can understand I guess

 

I don't know, it just feels so good. The guy I did it with was very gentle, and talked me through it, he didn't try and ram it in, he was gentle and eased it in. I remember taking a deep breath and thought "DAMN", but as he eased it in and out, I was in heaven.