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  1. AGFUNK

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    Now that I'm into anal I want it nearly every time we have sex, which can't be good for that area. How often do you have anal sex?
     
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    Only been with one guy, 1-2 times a week. But only for a few months.

    There is so much conflicting information on the internet about the safety (stretching), I don't know what to believe.

    I'm going to go with, gay men have been having anal sex for years and I haven't seen any health report on the news.
     
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    We do it a few times a month, but I don't think it will hurt anything as long as you use plenty of lube etc

    My wife has the hardest orgasms form anal though
     
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    We do it a couple of times a month. Sometimes more, like once a week, but then will go a few months without doing it at all.
     
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    I confess.... Anal virgin here
     
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    We wish we could, we have worked and worked, and lubed and lubed and two fingers is still painful for her.
     
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    Same here - as a giver, want to stay that way as a receiver.
     
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    There are definitely some women out there who have an amazing ass that makes me want to fuck it, but I just haven't had the chance
     
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    we do it probably once a month but that's personal preference between the wife and I. not due to any particular comfort factor. Do you find that you can do it several days in a row? lucky you.

    I would say the wife requires at least a day or two of recovery time.
     
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    I have ONLY did it 3 times with 2 different women.Twice with one and Once with the other and it was all because they wanted to do it with me.Got to say that the first time turned out fair and the other 2 turned out GREAT!!Both orgasmed from it including me.
    If you are wanting it really bad.I say try it.It might turn out good for you also.
     
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    It's not that we don't do it. I was asking how often people that have anal sex with their partner do it. As of now it's about once a week. I just wanted insight as to how others go about it.
     
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    very rare for us, mainly it is to do with my size, I have had anal with each female i have dated, but all of them felt uncomfy from my girth.
     
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    I'm gonna say maybe twice a month...never any issues.
     
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    I'm in the same boat as you, New to anal (last few months) and I absolutely love it, but I worry about how much is too much. We also average once a week.
     
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    We use to do it like once a month now if I'm lucky once every six months I can slide my head in and finish