[Ask a Girl] Anal

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  1. Fivestar

    Fivestar New Member

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    Hey girls....This might be a weird question but here it goes. I've been with my gf for over 6 years now. I have tried anal once but it was really hard for me to put it in. So then we decided not to try it. Now my question is....Do females really enjoy that and would it be a better feeling then vagina? After reading these comments on the site, I have really been turned on by that and will try it out SOON!
     
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    I feel like I want to reply to this cause that's the kind of sex I have the most of, but I don't think I'm in the category your seeking answers from Oo. I can't answer for biologic girls Oo.
     
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    I'm very curious why at the end of every sentence you type "Oo".
     
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    Cause I've got this thing about smileys and I can't stop... =p

    DAMNIT!
     
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    Lol, it's ok. I was just kind of...confused.
     
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    Haha I apologize if it annoys you, I know it can get on some peoples nerves! I just feel it adds a bit more to my sentences somehow =3.
     
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    It's ok love, no annoyance. Just curious.
     
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    She likes to annoy everyone ;) just joking.
     
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    I've not done anal enough that it's something my bf and I can do on a regular basis, but I can tell you that YES it feels SO GOOD and yes it's a completely different feeling. It's not a "better" feeling than vaginal sex, it's just... "different." When it is time, remember to go slow, and I mean slow, and use constant communication with your partner. But once you get going, it'll be WOW for both of you. :D
     
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    Should I buy the lube or just start it by the finger?
     
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    In my experience, you can't label this. Some women never have had anal sex and never intend to. Some have tried it, but didn't like it and won't do it. Some like it sometimes, but not all the time and some actually prefer it to vaginal intercourse. Any given woman has one of these opinions.

    xx
     
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    I am really wanting to try anal I love panties and want to be treated like a girl but am very tight, is there anything I can try to loosen myself a little and stop bleeding
     
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    Bleeding from back there isn't good, if you do that I strongly advice to take very good care of yourself and don't "try anything" until it's well healed. Infections are NOT cool X3. Seeing the doctor about such problems can also be a bit awkward =p.

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    Start small. Some are really tight, I'm pretty 'elastic', and others are some kind of middleground. Regardless it's important to use a LOT of lubrictation, I always say take until you think you have enough, then double that! X3 It really depends from person to person and it's hard to say how much exactly is correct.

    Get a few toys of varying sizes, and you can work your way up in size and become comfortable with whatever size you wish Oo.
     
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    Yea my wife wants nothing to do with anal, even said she could try on me but still nothing. Oh well
     
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    I personally don't like anal.....it feels like backwards pooping for me.....
     
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    I enjoy anal. The feeling is more intens
     
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    Lots and lots of lube.....there is no natural lubbing back there. Start small, with fingers, then work up to a small vib. Your have to strecth her over a few days or weeks to accommodate your size. It's going to HURT the first time, so double penetration. Finger her or use a vib at the same time. Most women can't cum from backdoor alone....at least for the first couple of times becasue the pain is more then the pleasure.

    And remember if she is not comfortable or just doesn't like it she may never cum this way and might not do it again, so try to make it as pleasurable as possible.


    hope it works out for you......let us know.....
     
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    I would do it 2 I.