whats up every one, i am new here... Quick stats Cajun male 27 y/o 6'1 603 pounds (no typo - imma big mother fucker) Any way chaeck this out. My wife was one of those reserved chicks...never had sex before we were married, and when she did masterbate she was against penitration...she was always scared of it, she never saw oral as a thing she would give or receive. Now that we are married she understands that i am a fucking FA-REAK! And i love it all. so i went down on her a few times (my wife is a small girl about 150 pounds - latina too fucking hawt) so to return the favor she went down on me...LOVED IT! freaking great she even swallowed...we tease each other quite a bit and flirt back and forth but she absolutely HATES the idea of anal...says it makes her feel gross....but i really want this. But i dont EVER want her to fee like she HAS TO or i wont love her as much, you know what i mean? I guess i want her to want it too. So we bought these condoms that numb the anus so the pain wouldnt really be a problem. She took a shit then a shower then teased me with a bj while i worked my fingers and tung to get her as horny as possible, then i put a condom on my finger....while she sucked away my fingers fucked away...i had 2 in the vagina andthe one with the condom deep in her ass...the vagina was taking her mind off of the ass. As soon as she was about to cream herself i pulled the fingers out layed on my back and allowed her to squat over me to insert penis into anus....we got the tip of the head in and it was hurting her...i even tried to thrust and she jumped off....she has warmed up to the idea...but i can not get her to try it again.... I WANT TO CUM IN AN ASS..... when we have sex i oil her ass up and massage her pussy and every now and then try to slip a finger in the anus but she stops and slaps my hand away.... Any advice here guys and gals? I want her to want this... i knw some chicks crave it...so why is mine so afraid of it? She said she wouldnt mind it but she is just afraid of it...mostly because it was just so taboo growing up.