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  1. 108 squdaron

    108 squdaron New Member

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    did any1 have anal sex?i did.post your thoughts on it.
    i think anal sex is okay.it hurts a bit sometimes but the boys love it. sometimes you can get really into sex like that,but sometimes not.post you thoughts.
     
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    It is something i have wanted to try ever since i lost my virginity. I just havn't come across a girl that will do it i mean, its a very kinky thing and i love the idea of it! Just wish more women would take it up then my dream will come true... :p
     
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    If it hurts..... they say ya aren't doin' it right....... Now, the best anal sex I ever experienced left me panting, and bleeding.... but I don't go that way very often. I'd rather ride someone's ass than have my ass ridden.
     
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    I did have anal sex with my wife and my ex-girlfriend a few times.

    With my wife, I get it about once every 3 months maybe. Although I love it and it really turns me on, it's not something I ask her for. She's the one that initiates it. While I'm fucking her, she masturbates at the same time. When she cums, I then cum at the same time. It can be very hot. But, I really have to go slow, otherwise it's painfull for her. For me, it's a little to slow and it can take time for me to cum this way sometimes. But, it's good anyway. Still can't figure out how those ladies do it in porn movies. They get banged so hard, ouch!
     
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    Me and Hotbabe do anal. We have found KY lube makes a diffrence. There are times her ass is sore after I fucked it We just wait a couple days and do it when ever we want.
     
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    My wife quite enjoys anal sex more than vaginal. The key really is lubrication, timing, and communication. If it is not properly lubricated and streched before entry it can be quite painful. Anal sex is something that needs to worked into slowly and done at a pace that is acceptable to both. Otherwise a few experiences with pain is enough to kill the opporutnity.
     
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    I tired it once but it hurt me. I'm not sure I could try it again, I'd be too scared, the pain was very intense.
     
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    I agree. If it's painful, it's not being done right. My wife prefers anal sex to vaginal. She had much more intense orgasms, and they can go on and on. We have anal sex about five times a week. Until about two weeks ago we hadn't had vaginal sex in over six months. Now, we're trying to get pregnant, and neither of us are enjoying it the other way nearly as much. As soon as she started her period, we were both a little disappointed, but that didn't last long. We had anal sex four times the first day of her period. We both wish she could get pregnant having anal sex (no lawyer jokes).
     
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    Doesn't doing it that much weaken the muscles?
     
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    Doing it improperly, possibly. Doing it right has the opposite effect.

    I typed this out in a recent thread:
     
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    OK thanks :)
     
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    You're welcome! I'm passionate about anal, and it pains me (no pun intended) to see and hear of others not doing it right, or avoiding it for the wrong reasons. Anal should NOT hurt.
     
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    OK... since you seem very knowledgeable on the subject...may I ask...

    I had a hemorrhoid during my last pregnancy, and now have a little (what i call) knobbly bit on my anus... would this be anything to do with the pain I experienced when I tried, or just my partners selfish ineptitude?
     
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    I'm no medical expert, and I have no experience with hemorrhoids. However, if you are describing your lover as 'selfish', then I think you have your answer. Anal penetration is something to be worked up to gradually, with lots of foreplay, relaxation, lube, and most of all: trust. The receiver is the one in control, the one who calls the shots. When he/she says stop, you stop.

    I hope that you both can work through the issues and come to enjoy it. :)
     
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    Ex partner.... :)

    I trusted him, cos I thought he was experienced with anal sex. He did stop as soon as I collapsed in pain, then said his ex wife didn't like it so why should I.... I guess that also explains why his ex didn't like it either.

    Yet some women have no trouble at all....
     
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    D'Oh! I guess I should re-read the thread before replying.

    Taking it to the point of collapse from pain is way beyond what is normal, healthy, or even caring. From what you've written it sounds as if he had no cares for your pain, and was using you for his own pleasure. And that's just sad. :(

    Some people just don't enjoy anal penetration, and that's OK. Maybe you fit into that category. :shrug But if I were you, I wouldn't give up just yet. A caring, loving, and selfless lover may make all the difference in the world.
     
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    He sounds like a clumy gobshite to me...

    Ooops just been on another forum discussing Irish swear words...

    aaahhhh well seems appropriate somehow

    lol!!!
     
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    To be fair... he wasn't forcing me, it was my idea cos I wanted to do it for him, but I have since been told he should have taken more time and streched me with fingers beforehand. he just went from a butt plug to his cock. I do wonder if maybe I am just not *built* for it. With the right person I would be prepared to try again, but only after plenty of preparation.

    (But it felt like a knife being shoved up there, so I am very wary of it)
     
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    :lol More appropriate than you know... he was Irish/American :lol
     
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    Hahaha....I knew I was psychic but that is too funny.....lol
     
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