Anal Sex

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  1. littlebit8402

    littlebit8402 New Member

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    Ok I have a question. Is having anal sex often a bad thing? Like can you cause your hole to permanently stretch out? Idk how else to phrase it. I have anal sex almost every time my boyfriend and I have sex and I'm kinda afraid I'm causing permanent damage.
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    there is not such thing as to cuz damage ur hole. Ur hole its a muscle n will go back to normal but of course u still need to b careful with wat u stick up thre besides a penis. Have fun I wish I could do anal w the wife

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    How I wish someone would be really truthful about anal sex. I am terrified of it. But I like my asshole to be eaten out, it feels so good, but the penis in the ass hole scares me. I have been told its really great and then told its terrible, I don't know who to believe.
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    from what i know, as long as your relax and ready you'll be alright. if you tense up and aren't comfortable you can cause damage. just make sure you're into it, take it slow, lube up, relax and make sure you trust whoever is putting there penis in your ass
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    I've had steady anal sex with several girlfriends, it didn't cause them any issues.

    The truth is it depends on the people involved. Some women love it whether or not it's gentle or rough, some women can't handle it no matter what.
    Just give it a try, the worst that can happen is you don't like it, in which case, just tell your man to stop.
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    I don't know about taking advice from a text speaker too seriously. As embarrassed as you might be to do it, you may want to ask a doctor of that area what they think about it. I guess that might be a gastroenterologist, aka a GI doctor.
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    you can do damage to the muscle if you aren't careful and you can cause yourself to get tears called fissures that can cause infections called absesses,,,these are not fun...
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    I know I am going against the popular vote here.. but I'm not that big a fan of it. I know a lot of guys just like it for the simple fact that of getting a woman to do something they dont want to do... a dominance thing. As far as feeling goes, I prefer a oral or vaginal over the ass any day.

    Not to mention, your options after anal are kind of limited.. you really shouldnt go back vaginally because of the risk of infection, and oral is not that pleasant either.. so unless you use anal as a finishing move, you are pretty much shutting down the rest of the park.

    I dunno.. just me maybe, but nothing feels as good as the main entrance.
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    Anal is all about preparation. Search the forums, there are some recent topics that go in depth about how to do anal right.
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    Anal is safe and fun if done right with lots of lube and you are relaxed enough to accept it.

    I have trained many girls in anal fun, from toys (butt plugs) to cock. You have to take your time get her to relax the muscle and go slow.

    As for stretching out the hole you really have to work at it with large toys and dilators. Ask anyone that is trying to do anal fisting.
    Many people around the world do anal yet they are not all walking around with stretched out asssholes. Nor are the doctors offices full of people from it.

    Take it easy and have fun. If it hurts to much stop. Just remember if its not fun try something else :)
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    Jolay, if you're having anal sex with pool_shark you may regret ever having the temptation to try it:lol
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    Where's the LIKE button :)
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    I haven't had my penis in my wife's ass in a long time, but she does enjoy having her ass fingered and licked, and I'm happy to oblige. I only do so if she has showered recently. It could be a good start to try.
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    you may call me the anal queen
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    I'd love to learn how to treat a lady during anal if you don't mind teaching. :D
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    In my limited experience with anal sex, I really loved it the first two times. It was a little painful upon him entering me but I was able to relax and it was very much a turn on, since I had already had an orgasm it was my next once was even better with the anal thrusting. I thought we would continue. Third time, I wasnt ready at all but he couldnt wait so it hurt like hell and boy did I ever let him know. We have never done it again.

    The woman has to be ready and the man has to be patient. Btw, I know alot of gay men and none of them complain about the assholes being stretched out, so I would say that I would worry about that. I know alot of porn stars have their spincter (spelling?) muscle clipped so they can have these huge cocks all the time and it doesnt hurt them. However unless they get it fixed, in a certain amount of time they wind up in diapers.
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    No anal sex is great, he has to take his time.
    Let him lick around your anus first,this will relax you,and plenty of lube, use a toy on your yourself, this heightens the whole thing.
    My wife loves doing anal,and using a vibrator on herself,she came three times and had one massive climax.
    The last time i looked my wife's anus was the same size.