Anal sex

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  1. jessicajj

    jessicajj New Member

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    Women my hubby wants to try anal im excited to try little worried but i always wanted dick in my tight ass. Need advise? Whats it like?
     
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    it's great once you get used to it. just take it slow and use lots of lube :D try playing with a toy first too, that way you'll get it a little warmed up and ready for the dick
     
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    How long did it take you to get used to it or how many dicks ;)
     
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    How many dicks? I don't think the number of people you have anal sex with makes any difference.

    It takes me a few minutes to get used to the feeling, it's very intense, but I've learned to relax which makes it more enjoyable.

    Anal sex isn't like losing your virginity, your butt will return to normal fairly quickly after anal but the more you do it, the faster you'll get used to the initial intensity.
     
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    Somewhatlovely your just amazing sorry had to get that out there.
    To Jessica, have him take it easy, use lots of lube and you need to relax. I like to slide a finger in her ass to get her "warmed" up as I am eating pussy.
     
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    like what others have said, it gets better the more you do it. i found the first time i done it that it hurt alittle but u soon get used to it and then its rather enjoyable. just relax. me and my partner have started anal in loads of different positions but ive found that doggy is the best. (well best to start with while you get used to it) then explore. you might find you prefer it. =]
     
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    very slow and lots of lube:ugh don't rush as it will be painful and relax
     
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    warm up to it, take it slow, ease in to it, be relaxed, if you tense up... theres no chance
     
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    IMO this is the simplest answer... but I want to add LUBE LUBE and MORE LUBE..

    at first it will be an weird feeling.. intense sensations (my first time I actually said "Ouch!" out of confusion lol there was no pain but the intensity of the sensations was new & kinda scary ;) )

    with me if it ever gets to the point of actual pain (be it me moved too fast or a wrong angle.. whatever..) anal is over for me for the night because I can't get relaxed again'

    it gets easier with time.. I used to do it several times a week and then stopped for 2 years.. so it's back to like I've never done it before but it's easier every time we do it :)
     
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    I've had anal with several ladies, none of whom were my wife as she will not even let me finger her anus let alone anything else. What I've found to be the golden rule, apart from relaxing your partner, is that if you think that sufficient lube has been used then use some more, there can never be enough!
     
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    Nothing quite like bumping a 12 month old thread when there are hundreds of newer threads on the same subject hey buddy