Anal Sex Toys

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by abc123, Dec 23, 2005.

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  1. abc123

    abc123 New Member

    Sep 7, 2004
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    I'm sort of new to this subject, but I'm a straight male who has recently found a love for anal stimulation. My wife is really turned on by it but doesn't feel comfortable with sticking her fingers up my ass. So I bought a dildo and a butt plug so she can help me out. I've found that I love the feeling of the thrusting with the actual dildo.

    Anyway, my question directed towards absolutely anyone!

    What sort of anal sex toys are the best? What can you suggest from personal experience that can offer the most pleasure? Butt plugs? Dildo? Anal beads? Putting in a link to the real thing would be nice, too! ;)

    Any other thoughts on the subject would be helpful. Like do you do it too? Do you do it in every sexual encounter you have? Or just on occasion? Do you like thrusting? Big toys? Little toys?
  2. Tommyhot

    Tommyhot Member

    Jun 11, 2005
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    Well if you're new to anal then start with a finger then slowly move up. After getting used to your finger try a small butt plug. From there a small dildo. GET SILCONE toys, they clean up easy and will not harbor bacteria like rubber. Silcone rules.

    I do it every once in a while, when I'm in the mood and LOVE IT. I use small to medium sized toys and an Aneros prostate massager which is REALLY AWESOME!

    Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned..

    The take a dump feeling you get is normal. You lose this after a short while. The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and schincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all.
    Anal play for beginners

    Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY.

    First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure.
    Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP!

    Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in.

    Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.
    Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!
    After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 10 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco!

    The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
  3. Joe

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    Oct 6, 2005
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    I haven't tried too many, but what does the trick for me are the vibrating ones. Turn that thing up on high just when I'm about to cum and it's the most intense orgasm you can imagine. I've never enjoyed the "thrusting" at all. My ex used to like to do that to me during a bj, probably because she liked it on herself. My new wife isn't into anal play much, so it's kinda on the back burner for now.
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