Anal Sex: Can't take very much

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  1. EroticLG

    EroticLG New Member

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    I was unsure what to name this thread and it still sounds a bit weird to me. I don't really know who to talk to about this so I thought I'd try an online forum.

    Ok, so a couple weeks ago I was fooling around with my girl and the topic of anal sex came up. We've never done it before, but I've always wanted to try it. So she says she'll let me do it if she can do it to me first. Well I knew she was joking, but I couldn't think of any reason why it wasn't a fair compromise.

    Fast forward to now. We ended up getting some toys and we pretty much "practice" every couple days now. The thing is, I have a fairly big penis (about 8.5inch) and in all the time we've been fooling around with this, she can't seem to take more than about 6inch of a toy. I know what she means because I can only seem to fit as much in me before it sorta hurts or there's this uncomfortable pressure.

    We've read guides online and stuff and we started slow and everything, but it seems we've hit a wall(literally) and I can't find anything about what to do now. We've seen porn where girls are able to take longer toys and penises anally too. Is this something only a few people can do?
     
  2. Barbwire

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    If that's all she can take, then that's all she can take, period. If you try for more you could just hurt or even worse, tear her. :eek

    Why don't you just insert what she can handle of your cock and that's it? You can put your hand at the base of your cock so it doesn't go in past a certain point to avoid accidentally getting too excited and hurting her.

    Welcome to the forums, btw.
     
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    I guess it's sort of a turn-on kinda thing for both of us. We haven't actually used my penis yet since we sorta agreed that we'd wait until we're comfortable enough. If there's nothing we can do, that really sucks. Those people that can take whole arms and 12inch toys are kinda unique then...

    I told my gf about this post and she was hoping for some good news. "Oh, I never thought of that!" I'm in the green so I'm afraid to give her the bad news now...:nerv
     
  4. Barbwire

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    From what I've seen of anal scenes in porn, the men rarely get their entire cocks inside the women. Look closely, they really don't. I'm not sure if it's because of logistics or what.
     
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    Also remember, dicks always look bigger on other guys. I'd bet a lot of the guys doing anal porn may not actually have 8.5 inches.
     
  6. PassionateMale

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    Its still going to feel good for you whether you have 6 inches of your penis, or the whole thing in there. I would definitely take what you can get and completely enjoy it.

    I miss anal sex a little.
     
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    I don't think length is a big problem, because you don't have to fit all the way inside her to get off.

    The biggest problem is girth. Anal with too much girth can obviously hurt the woman, but it also hurts your dick. The easiest anal sex I had with my girl was when we oiled each other up and played around for awhile. We were both so oiled up, that when I slipped inside her ass, it slid in pretty easily and felt great.

    All the other times we had anal sex, eventhough we prepared very well and used a lot of lube, it felt like her ass was going to squeeze my dick off.